6.12.09

Father guilty of raping daughter on shared parenting visits

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Father guilty of raping daughter

Ross Irby | 5th December 2009

A DIVORCED dad and former teacher has been found guilty of raping his daughter when she was aged just 10 and 11 at his Northern Rivers home – a crime the court was told is the worst allegation that can be made against a father.

A Lismore District Court jury yesterday took two and a half hours to return guilty verdicts on three counts of rape and one count of indecency relating to a series of offences in 2004 that occurred when the little girl stayed with her father on shared parenting arrangements.

As the verdicts were read out in the courtroom before Judge James Black, the father gave a quick gasp, then quickly maintained his composure.

As he left the dock in custody he thanked his barrister. His sentence date was adjourned to February 26.

During the five-day trial the man, aged in his 50s, maintained his innocence and gave evidence from the witness stand that there had been no sexual misconduct between him and his daughter.

As the trial progressed a picture emerged of a deeply troubled daughter and a family badly bruised by an acrimonious divorce.

In his final summing up yesterday morning, defence barrister Anthony Smith urged the jury to conclude that his client was a loving and caring father `who would not harm a hair on his child's head'.

Mr Smith said there was no medical evidence or eyewitness to support the daughter's complaints, adding she had been a child who was anxious and depressed and who at the time desperately wanted to spend more time with her dad.

"The world's worst wreck is a broken marriage," Mr Smith said.

"The tragedy (of such a break-up) has been on show. In the dock is a man who faces the worst allegation that can be made against a father. You must be satisfied beyond doubt," he said to the jury.

Mr Smith said the child's accusations had not been made for some years afterward, despite the girl attending regular sessions with a counsellor and a psychologist.

He revealed personal letters the troubled daughter had written, including to a trusted teacher that spoke about the emotional turmoil in her life with ongoing fights, anger and sadness within herself and her family. "I hate my life. When I cry no one understands," she wrote.

The Crown case included an allegation the father had treated his daughter more like a wife, where she would have to get his beer and help cook, and which moved on to the sexual offences.

"There is no doubt she was a very troubled child at that time," the Crown said in his final submission.

"It is very clear that something very traumatic is going on in her life at the time to make her move from I love my dad to the position of never wanting to see her dad again."

The Crown said it would be very confusing, traumatic and life shattering to a child when a person they believed they could rely on to protect them behaved in such a way; and because of this enormous confusion had not told any one.

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East Pierce man apparently shoots self, girlfriend

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East Pierce man apparently shoots self, girlfriend

BY LEWIS KAMB; THE NEWS TRIBUNE

 

 

An East Pierce County man apparently shot and killed his live-in girlfriend inside the couple’s Summit area home early Saturday, then turned the gun on himself, police said.

“We’re still investigating it, but at this point, it appears to be a murder-suicide,” Pierce County Sheriff’s spokesman Det. Ed Troyer said.

The couple’s one-year-old son was at his grandparents’ house at the time of the shooting, Troyer said.

The Pierce County Medical Examiner’s Office has not formally released the names of the dead.

Neighbors described the man, a 26-year-old corrections officer, and the woman, a 29-year-old real estate agent, as friendly and family-oriented.

“They were a real nice couple,” said neighbor Maria Runnels. “They seemed to get along and were planning to have another kid. At least, they were talking about it.”

Gailyn Boschee, a local broker at Alliance Real Estate, said the woman had worked for him for three or four years. “She was a very nice young lady,” said Boschee, who was stunned to hear the news of the shooting from a reporter last night.

Investigators are still trying to confirm that the man worked for a federal immigration detention center at the Port of Tacoma, Troyer said. The man, who had been in the military and served a tour in Iraq, may have been a civilian employee under contract for the detention center, Troyer added.

The man’s father first alerted police to check on the couple Saturday morning, after receiving a strange phone call from his son, Troyer said.

“The relative got a message (from the man, saying), `Please take care of the baby,’ ” Troyer said.

After the relative called police, officers responded about 9:30 a.m. to the couple’s duplex in the 4600 block of 72nd Street Court East. Inside, they found both adults dead of gunshot wounds, Troyer said.

“His appeared self-inflicted,” Troyer added.

Saturday evening, on the quiet cul-de-sac lined by four single-story duplexes, neighbors said they knew nothing about what happened until after police and fire medics arrived on their street.

“This all came as a huge shock to the neighborhood,” said Nick Korschinowski. “I’ve lived across from them for two years, and we’ve never had police come to any kind of domestic violence disturbance there.”

The couple worked different shifts to avoid the costs of taking their son to day care, Runnels said. The man worked nights, so he could babysit during the day while his wife worked, she said.

“I know he was really tired all the time,” Runnels said. “He came home and took care of the baby all day.”

“But I just can’t comprehend what would be so wrong that you’d have to do that, especially when you have a baby,” she added.

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December 10, 2009 Jana's Campaign to STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE Kickoff Event/Press Conference - Topeka, KS

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January 30, 2010
Presentation about Jana's Campaign (Western Kansas Girl Scouts Association) - Hays, KS

December 21, 2009
Campaign Planning Retreat - Council Grove, KS

December 10, 2009
Jana's Campaign Kickoff Event/Press Conference - Topeka, KS

November 20, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign - SE of Saline HS

Novmeber 4, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign/KS tag Bill (KU's Commission on the status of women) - Lawrence, KS

October 21, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign/KS tag Bill (A week without violence event) - Topeka, KS

October 20, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign/KS tag Bill (NW Kansas Safe Home Annual event) - Hays, KS

October 5, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign/KS tag Bill - Lindsburg, KS

October 3, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign/KS tag Bill - Wichita, KS

September 17, 2009
Presentation about Jana's Campaign/KS tag Bill (Take Back the Night event) - Lawrence, KS

June 20, 2009
Curt Brungardt speaks at NOW conference on international violence against women - Indianapolis, IN

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'We are driven by one goal,' victim's mother says
In July 2008, Curt and Christie Brungardt received a life-shattering phone call. Their 25-year-old daughter, Jana Mackey, a first-year University of Kansas law student, had been slain by her ex-boyfriend and found in his home. The perpetrator was arrested two days later in New Jersey and committed suicide in jail, authorities said. more

Brungardts' Appointed to Lead Advisory Committee

Kansas Attorney General Steve Six has appointed Curt and Christie Brungardt as co-chairs of the Kansas Domestic Violence Batterers Intervention Program Advisory Board.

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UPDATE: Madison, Middleton Police Investigate Quadruple Murder VIDEO

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UPDATE: Madison, Middleton Police Investigate Quadruple Murder

INSIDE: Statement from family of those involved in Madison murders. UPDATE: Listen to the entire statement by Tyrone Adair's family, asking him to turn himself in before he - or anyone else - gets hurt.

Reporter: Staff
Email Address: news@nbc15.com


VIDEO: Plea for Tyrone To Turn Himself In 12-05-09
VIDEO: Background on Murder Suspect 12-04-09
VIDEO: Reactions to Quadruple Murder 12-04-09
VIDEO: Live Report from Murder Scene 12-03-09

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Posted Saturday, December 5, 2009
Updated at 10:12 p.m.

Members of Tyrone Adair's family said Saturday night that they were very sorry for the hurt caused in the quadruple murders.

"Before anyone else is hurt, please turn yourself in," said Damien Sundby, Tyrone's brother. "And when we say before anyone else gets hurt that includes yourself. Please, this needs to come to an end and we need some closure."

Other members of Adair's family who attended the news conference include:
Rita Adair - Tyrone's mother
Harold Ferguson - Tyrone's father
Raven Adair - Tyrone's sister
Brandi Grayson - Tyrone's sister
Lisa Dyer - Rita's sister (Tyrone's aunt)
Juanita Humphrey - Rita's mother
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UPDATED Friday, December 4, 2009 --- 9:14 p.m.

Statement from the families involved in Madison investigation:

Words cannot express how deeply devastated we are by the traumatic and sudden loss of Amber Weigel and Neveah Jordan Weigel-Adair.

Amber was our sister, our daughter, our granddaughter and our aunt. She was a loving girlfriend, a dedicated mother, and a loyal friend and ally to many people. She loved and saw promise in every single person. She was so proud of what she had become and what she did with her life, which she demonstrated through her self-proclaimed title "Proud Mama."

She was amazingly enthusiastic about her job at the Montessori Children's House where she was well-loved and appreciated, and where Neveah had just started attending. Neveah was Amber's life. She was a loving little girl, full of spark and personality. Their love and their laughter will be sorely missed by us all.

We are a close-knit group who feels blessed to have a family that extends beyond genetics, which is why we extend our prayers and thoughts to Tyrone Adair's family, particularly to Tyrone's mother because she has also lost a granddaughter, and they have lost a cherished family member.

Please keep our entire family, all the families and every person affected by this tragedy in your hearts and prayers.

We'd like to specifically ask all friends of the family to please help ensure the safety of the rest of this family by refraining from making any comments or releasing any information.

For those who would like to honor Amber and Neveah's lives please feel free to drop off donations to any Summit Credit Union location under the name "Amber and Neveah Weigel Memorial Fund," or mail your donations to:

Amber and Neveah Weigel Memorial Fund
Summit Credit Union
P.O. Box 8046
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UPDATE Posted Friday, December 4, 2009 -- 9:05 p.m.

Information from the Dane County Coroner's Office:

The Dane County Coroner’s Office has released the names of the four homicide victims discovered in the City of Madison and the City of Middleton on December 3, 2009.

Found in the City of Madison on Park Edge Drive were Amber M. Weigel, 25, of Madison, and Neveah Weigel - Adair, 2, of Madison.

Found in the City of Middleton on Branch Street were Tracy L. Graser, 33, of Middleton, and Deja Adair, 23 months, both of Middleton

Forensic examinations of all four victims were conducted today at the Dane County Coroner’s Office. Amber Weigel and Neveah Adair were the victims of homicidal firearm attacks.

Tracy Graser and Deja Adair were victims of homicidal attacks that were not related to firearms.

No additional information is being released at this time. These deaths remain under investigation by the City of Madison Police, the Middleton Police Department, the Dane County Sheriff’s Department and the Dane County Coroner’s Office.
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UPDATE Posted Friday, December 4, 2009 -- 5:30 p.m.
By Zac Schultz

Madison: A nationwide manhunt is on for a Middleton man accused of killing two women and the daughters he had with them.

A felony arrest warrant has been issued for Tyrone Adair, but police have no idea where he is.

Thursday evening around 6 o'clock someone found the body of Amber Weigel and her two year old daughter Neveah in the garage of their duplex on Park Edge Drive in Madison. They were shot to death in their car. "It appears that she pulled into the garage and that she and her child were shot shortly after they arrived at home," says Joel DeSpain, spokesman for the Madison Police Department.

At 9:15, Middleton Police opened the trunk of a Chrysler 300 found along Branch Street and found the body of Tracy Judd and her daugther Deja-who would have turned two years old on Christmas day. "Those victims were found in the trunk of the car and that it's likely those homicides took place somewhere else and they were transported in the trunk of the car and left in that location," says DeSpain.

DeSpain says all of the victims are connected to 38 year old Tyrone Adair. "Both of these women who were shot and killed had relationships with this suspect. In addition, we believe the two young children are his biological daughters."

Tyrone two daughters were born three months apart in 2007. He lived with Tracy Judd at her house in Middleton.

Middleton Police say Adair was seen at the Branch Street Retreat Thursday afternoon. It's believe he left in a cab.

According to the felony arrest warrant Adair was last seen leaving Judd's house around 4pm.

Weigel's body was found at 6, and at 7:30 Adair called one of Judd's older daughters and said her mother and sister wouldn't be coming home because they had a bad accident on Branch Street.

Adair told the girl he was behind the WalMart in Dodgeville.

According to court records, Adair stopped visiting his first daughter last March. This summer, he lost partial custody and was ordered to pay $351 a month in child support. Soon after he lost his job.

This is not the first time Adair has threatened a girlfriend. A Madison woman still has a restraining order against Adair from the time in 2006 when he threatened her over the phone, broke into her apartment and slashed her tires.

Just a few months after that episode, Weigel became pregnant with his daughter.

Madison Police say they've been contact with Adair's ex-girlfriends. "He's armed and dangerous," says DeSpain. "He's shown some propensity to act violently to women who've been in his life in the past."

Tyrone Adair is the son of Madison social worker Rita Adair, who became well known for her work during the Hurricane Katrina crisis.

Police say they have been in contact with the family and they are cooperating with the hunt for Tyrone.

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UPDATE: Friday, December 4, 2009 --- 5:45 p.m.
By: Chris Woodard

Those who knew the victims say they want nothing more than for police to find Adair.

Tonight they fight with the reality that those they knew and loved are gone.

They say when you consider two kids have been murdered, two of the suspects' own children, this whole thing gets even harder to stomach and hard for many to believe.

The cold, calmness of the day in this Southwest Madison neighborhood makes it even harder for those who live here to imagine the terror that went on inside this garage.

It's where police found Amber Weigel and her 2 year old daughter Neveah dead in their own vehicle.

Neighbor Sue Olson says, "The ambulance had pulled up and less than 10 minutes later they carried the child out on the ambulance. They were running on the gurney."

Weigel's friend Aisha Spinks says, "I just, I was in shock I could not believe that this would happen to such a nice person."

Spinks says when she saw police outside the home Thursday night she tried to call Weigel to see if she was OK.

She says, "She was one of the happiest people I've ever met and she especially was happy and a lot of people can't do that. She was happy about her life and her job and her daughter and everything just was going great for her."

Police believe Tyrone Adair killed Amber and the couples 2 year old daughter Neveah and the same day killed girlfriend Tracy Judd and that couple's 1 year old daughter Deja.

Police were searching in and around the home Adair shared with Judd today.

Neighbor Nicole Graham says, "I am concerned about it happening in my back yard. I'm concerned about it happening in anyone's back yard. You know you just hope and pray that it's not you really."

Neighbors say Weigel worked at Montessori Children's House where her daughter Neveah attended daycare.

Spinks says the two were inseparable.

She says, "It's tough and the kids are still shaken up by the whole situation so I think he should be caught."

Again, police say they do not know if Adair is in the Madison area or has fled and are asking anyone who has information or thinks they see Adair to call 911.

He is considered armed and dangerous.

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Posted Friday, December 4, 2009
UPDATED: 3:47 p.m.

According to a felony warrant issued for Adair's arrest, around 9 p.m. Thursday, Middleton police broke into the trunk of Adair's Chrysler and found the bodies of his current girlfriend, Tracy Judd, and their daughter, who would turn two years old on Christmas.

Judd and Adair lived together at Judd's home in Middleton with Judd's daughters from another marriage.

Those daughters told police Tyrone Adair called them around 7:30 p.m. to say their mother and half sister would not be coming home.

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UPDATED: Friday, December 4th, 2009 --- 11:45 a.m.

Middleton Police have released a photo of Tyrone Adair taken yesterday, the day of the murders.

From Middleton Police:

The afternoon of December 3, 2009, homicide suspect Tyrone M. Adair, M/B, age 38, 5' 10", 175, was last seen wearing camo pants, a baseball style cap possibly beige, a dark puffy vest, green long sleeved shirt, light colored footwear, and carrying a beige backpack. He is thought to be operating a 2007 Silver GMC Acadia SUV bearing WI/342EBL. Adair remains at large and should be considered armed and dangerous.
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UPDATED: Friday, December 4th, 2009 --- 11:15 a.m.

Search continues for man who's a person of interest in slayings of 2 women, 2 children

MADISON, Wis. (AP) -- Authorities are still searching for a man they say is a "person of interest" in the deaths of two women and two young children.

Madison police say 38-year-old Tyrone Adair had a relationship with both women, but declined to say if he had any connection with the girls.

Online court records say a man with Adair's name and age has two paternity cases pending, along with a lengthy criminal record which includes battery and disorderly conduct.

A mother and her daughter were found shot to death inside a vehicle in the garage on Madison's southwest side last evening. Later last night in Middleton, the bodies of a woman and girl were found in the trunk of a vehicle in a parking lot.
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UPDATED: Friday, December 4th, 2009 --- 10:00 a.m.

From Madison Police:

Mr. Adair remains at large. The Madison Police Department is actively working with multiple law enforcement agencies casting a wide dragnet to bring him in. Anyone seeing Mr. Adair, or the vehicle he is likely driving (a Silver GMC Acadia with a Wisconsin plate 342-EBL) should call 911 immediately. Again, he is considered armed and dangerous.
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Posted: Friday, December 4, 2009 --- 7:23 a.m.

Madison and Middleton Police Departments are looking for a person of interest in a quadruple murder after two mothers and two daughters were found murdered late last night. Police are looking for 38-year-old Tyrone Adair. He's a person of interest in all four deaths. Adair may be driving a Silver GMC Acadia with a Wisconsin plate 342-EBL.

This all started in the 6800 block of Park Edge Drive on Madison's south west side. Madison Police got a call just after 6 Thursday night. They arrived at the scene to find a young mother and her young daughter killed. Their bodies were found in a car in their garage.

About 2-and-a-half hours later, Middleton Police found a vehicle that Madison Police were looking for in relation to the first murders. It was found in the parking lot at Forest Ridge Apartments in the 2600 block of Branch Street in Middleton. Police say another adult female and female child were found dead in the trunk of that car.
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POSTED Thursday, December 3, 2009
UPDATED: 11:40 p.m.

Middleton Police tell NBC15's Chris Woodard the following:

Middleton Police confirm their officers are at a second crime scene involved in this quadruple murder. The scene is in the Forest Ridge Apartments area on Branch Street in Middleton.

Middleton Police were notified by Madison Police about a vehicle they were looking for in relation to the first double homicide.

Around 8:30 p.m., Middleton Police located that vehicle in the parking lot at Forest Ridge Apartments in the 2600 block of Branch Street in Middleton.

They approached the vehicle and didn't initially see any evidence of problems. A short time later they came to find the body of a deceased female and a young girl in the trunk of the vehicle.

At this point, Middleton Police are not aware of any connection between that apartment building and the suspect or anyone else involved.

Police continue to search for a crime scene. Police say it doesn't appear that those people were murdered in that vehicle or at the location where the vehicle was found.
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Information from Madison Police:

A second crime scene was discovered tonight in the 2600 block of Branch Street in the City of Middleton. An adult female and a female child were found inside a vehicle located in a parking lot.

These are the two other victims referenced in the original release. Both cases are being treated as double homicides.

SUSPECT INFORMATION:
Police are search for Tyrone Adair. He is a suspect in these deaths in Madison and Middleton. Police say he is considered armed-and-dangerous.

Born 03-09-1971.
5'10" -- 175 lbs. -- black hair -- brown eyes

He is believed to be driving a Silver GMC Acadia with the license plate 342-EBL
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Madison Police say four people are dead Thursday night after a pair of incidents.

Madison Police Public Information Officer Joel DeSpain says two other people died, but could not say where that incident took place other than that it is in Dane County.

SUSPECT INFORMATION:
Police are search for Tyrone Adair. He is a suspect in these deaths across Dane County. Police say he is considered armed-and-dangerous.

Born 03-09-1971.
5'10" -- 175 lbs. -- black hair -- brown eyes

He is believed to be driving a Silver GMC Acadia with the license plate 342-EBL.

If you see Tyrone Adair, you're asked to call 9-1-1.
Do not confront him, just contact police.
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UPDATED Thursday, December 3, 2009 --- 9:31 p.m.

Madison Police Public Information Officer Joel DeSpain says the investigation has turned to a double-homicide. Police arrived at the scene to find a young mother and her young daughter killed. Their bodies were found in a car in the garage at the residence where they live.

DeSpain says no information is being given about the names or ages of those killed because next-of-kin haven't been notified.

He says this was not a random act, but they do not have a suspect in custody. Police say there's no threat to the general public at this time.
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UPDATED Thursday, December 3, 2009 --- 7:43 p.m.

Madison Police tell NBC15 that the scene of the crime is secure. There is no other information to pass along at this time, but the latest information will be posted on this story.
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Posted Thursday, December 3, 2009 --- 7:30 p.m.

Madison Police currently are investigating a shooting on the city's southwest side.

Dane County Dispatchers tell NBC15 that a call for a possible shooting came in to the 911 Center around 6:00 p.m. Thursday.

It happened in the 6800 block of Park Edge Drive.

Madison Police have not released any information about this incident.

There is an NBC15 crew at the scene. Continue to monitor this story for the latest updates.


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Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2009 at 11:27 AM

The Acadia will only have active Onstar if the owner subscribed to Onstar. I noticed Adair's family hasn't given any statements. Why is that? Isn't his mom a well known something or other?
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Posted by: j on Dec 5, 2009 at 09:00 AM

if he was last in a gmc acadia it may have onstar. call them up and track it down!
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Posted by: Jay Location: Madison on Dec 5, 2009 at 04:49 AM

I thought based on my other comments people might be curious. According to table 25 of 2008 UCR reports Table 25 63% of murders were solved. This number is misleading too. If a murder is not solve until the next year it is put into the next years solve rate, so the number should actually be lower. I'd say we're well over that rate.
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Unjust Delays (psychological evaluations) in San Diego Family Law Courts

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Unjust Delays in San Diego Family Law Courts

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In yet another symptom of the diseased San Diego Family Law courts and State of California, an illness on the bench is causing months of delays in trials and hearings. Judge Lorna Alksne is filling in for an ill judge in El Cajon (East County) court from Tuesday to Thursday, leaving only Monday and Friday for her to hear her own cases. The result is that hearings and trials are being pushed back, sometimes for months. In today’s broken courts, it’s not unusual for San Diego divorces to take more than two years of legal warfare. It’s a far cry from anybody’s concept of a “fair and speedy trial”. Sometimes, it is more like government-assisted child abuse.

Retired Judges No Longer Employed Extensively for Backfill

Previously, it was common for San Diego Superior Court to temporarily rehire retired judges to fill in for absences and to handle case overload. This makes sense from a cost perspective as there are no more retirement contributions being paid in for temporary rehires.

But today, the state government’s fiscal house is not only out of order but is figuratively burning to the ground due in part to government overspending and waste. Funds to pay for more cost-efficient handling of court staff absences and shortages are absent. Particularly hard hit are the family law courts. The result is a growing backlog of court cases, leading to unjust delays for many families.

Divorce Case of the Moores, Outgoing Padres Owners

Among the families affected by these delays are the Moores, the outgoing owners of the San Diego Padres. Their battles are primarily about money and the discovery process to find assets. The affair John Moores had with a former San Diego gynecologist Dianne Rosenberg apparently was the impetus for Rebecca Moores to file for divorce in case SDSC D507634 on January 30, 2008. Alksne has delayed the start of their trials for months, now pushing it out from December 3, 2009 to March 15, 2010. While the delays in this case may be upsetting to the participants as it stretches beyond two years of litigation, there are no minor children involved.

Children Deprived of Parents

Sadly, the children of divorcing parents are often among the worst affected parties by the delays in Alksne’s family law courts. Rather than focusing on child custody issues first, the courts mix custody and financial issues and thereby delay correcting custody imbalances for months. They further build hostility and resentment on the part of unfairly aggrieved parents who are being blocked from reasonable time with their children. Such reactions to the injustices perpetrated by these courts are entirely reasonable.

Parents who have obtained interim sole or majority custody are given incentive to drag out trials for as long as possible, harming both the children and the other parent. The court allows this to happen, even encourages it. Alksne’s courts further enable parental alienation, financial victimization, and other abuses and crimes against children and parents by vindictive parties who are unwilling to cooperate sharing custody. They and their attorneys resort to stunts such as false abuse allegations, repeated use of continuances, delaying psychological evaluations by nonpayment of fees and claiming they are “preparing more evidence” for which the evaluator must wait months, and other tricks to falsely obtain custody and then retain it through years of delays.

Further aggravating these problems, judges who appoint minor’s counsel often fail to supervise these attorneys and allow them to drag out for years cases that should be resolved in weeks. They allow them to financially victimize the public and/or parents who are paying their bills and to emotionally abuse the children and/or parents by failing to do an adequate job. Frequently, minor’s counsel attorneys never even meet their supposed clients. In many cases, these attorneys often take the side of one parent against the other based upon identifying with their gender or some other illegitimate reason. This amounts to government-endorsed sexism, parental alienation, and emotional child abuse, often with the victimized parent paying for half or more of it.

By the time the courts rule on such cases, children, parents, and extended families have been wronged for years. They are often then wronged again when judges deny restoration of equal shared custody on the basis that the children are not used to living with the victimized parent. Crime pays in San Diego family law courts, courtesy of shoddy judges and a corrupt family law system presided over by Judge Lorna Alksne.

Support Payments: Pay Your Abuser Or Else!

Adding insult to tragic injury, the courts also frequently impose child and/or spousal support orders upon victimized spouses. These people are being extorted by the courts to pay for the abuse being inflicted upon them, often while they are paying literally thousands of dollars per month for a few hours per week with their children under “supervised visitation” programs which the San Diego courts frequently require even in the absence of any due process evaluation, simply based upon allegations by a malicious parent.

Protective Measures, 50/50 Splits, and Fast Interim Child Custody Decisions

If Alksne is truly committed to improving her courts as she claims by her participation in the Elkins Task Force, she should modify local court rules to start fixing these injustices:

  • Default child custody is 50/50 split unless the parents agree otherwise or a background check on the parents show criminal convictions (not simply allegations as they are a frequently used tool of alienating parents) or incarceration involving violence, drug, or alcohol abuse within the previous five years.
  • If child custody is contested, a parental coordinator shall be immediately assigned to work with the parents at a 50/50 cost split with the county picking up the cost for parents who are below the poverty line. Exchanges shall be done at protected neutral locations. These include both schools that have not aligned with one parent and professional supervised exchanges. If both parents agree to the school, then it can be used by simply assigning the school to enforce who picks up the child on which days and to call the police and parental coordinator if the other parent shows up. If the parents cannot agree on a neutral exchange site that can be used with only one parent present for pick-up, then they must use professional supervised exchanges to be paid for 50/50 with the county picking up the cost for parents below the poverty line. These two measures can help to avert a lot of very expensive and damaging problems that will drain court resources and harm the children.
  • When a child custody evaluation is recommended by Family Court Services, require that child custody evaluations result in an interim report within two months of their start.
  • If a child custody evaluation is not recommended by Family Court Services but requested by one or both parents, require that such child custody evaluations result in an interim report within one month of their start.
  • Severely sanction any parties who impede completion of an interim child custody evaluation report without “good cause” to be limited to unpredictable severe circumstances such as a death or medical crisis in the family. Sanctions are to be paid into the county fund that pays for the parental coordinators and protected exchanges described above.
  • Order that both interim and “final” child custody evaluations be released to the court upon completion, regardless of payment status. Any evaluator who will not comply with this order should be permanently barred from child custody evaluations and sanctioned for the full amount of the fees paid with the sanctions to be paid into the county fund that pays for the parental coordinators and protected exchanges described above.
  • Require that any action taken to remove or alter custody without written agreement of both parents result in a hearing within 2 court days.
  • Require minor’s counsel attorneys, when used, to meet with the children and each of the parents at least twice prior to trial and to have the first meeting within two weeks and the second within the following two months.
  • Suspension or termination of parent/child contact is NEVER allowed without meeting criminal standards of proof beyond a reasonable doubt. At a minimum, supervised visitation should always be allowed at least once per week three hours per visit unless a shorter duration is recommended by 3/4 majority of at least three mental health therapists with at least one therapist representing each of the parents and children. If a parent is below the poverty line, the county should pay the cost.

This is just a start to needed improvements, most of which are not addressed in any sensible fashion by the Elkins Task Force recommendations. There are far more needed. If Alksne can’t push at least these minimal improvements through into effect in San Diego County, she should be recalled and replaced by a judge committed to reforming the San Diego family law courts who can actually get some results.

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A Decatur county man shoots and kills his live-in girlfriend and 8-year old son, then takes his own life.

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http://www.wctv.tv/home/headlines/78631472.html

 

A Decatur county man shoots and kills his live-in girlfriend and 8-year old son, then takes his own life.

Posted: 8:22 AM Dec 6, 2009
Email Address: News@wctv.tv

 

Decatur County Deputies say around 8 p.m. Saturday, December 5 42-year-old James Reynolds shot and killed 31-year-old Tonya Swords and their 8-year-old Son Kahm in his home on 202 County Line Road, then he shot and killed himself.

Deputies say a family member went to check on Reynolds at his home and discovered the three victims' bodies.

 

Initial reports show Rogers left Reynolds earlier in the week and was staying in Thomasville. Reynolds picked up his-girlfriend and their son Kahm, and took them back to his home Saturday night.

The investigation is ongoing and we will continue to keep you updated as soon as more information becomes available.

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“ Tis the season” Double murder-suicide reported in Decatur Co.

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http://www.walb.com/Global/story.asp?S=11629356

 

Double murder-suicide reported in Decatur Co.

Posted: Dec 06, 2009 11:12 AM CSTUpdated: Dec 06, 2009 12:04 PM CST

By Christian Jennings

BAINBRIDGE, GA - (WALB) - The Decatur County Sheriff's Office says Saturday night sometime between 7:00 and 8:00, James Bubba Reynolds III, 42, shot and killed his live-in girlfriend Tonia Swords, 31, their 7-year-old son Kahm Reynolds, and then himself inside their home at 202 County Line Road.

A family member found their bodies and called 911 around 8:00PM.

The Sheriff's Office was investigating Bubba Reynolds for child molestation at the time of the incident.

About a week ago, DEFACS and The Sheriff's Office moved Tonia Swords, their son, and two daughters to a safe home in a different county.

WALB will have more information on the story later.

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