6.12.09

Support Funding for Domestic Violence Services NOW

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Hello Stop Family Violence Activists!

Here's an important action alert from our colleagues at National Network to End Domestic Violence

Urge Key Senators to Support Increased Funding for Domestic Violence Services!

Congress is finalizing the funding bills for fiscal year 2010. The U.S. House of Representatives and Senate have passed separate funding bills and now must reconcile their bills into one before sending it to the President.  The House passed a higher funding amount for Family Violence Prevention and Services Act (FVPSA) - which is the only federal funding dedicated to domestic violence services and shelters.  

Act now to preserve the higher funding amount in the final bill!

FVPSA is at the heart of our nation's response to domestic violence, providing emergency, lifesaving services to victims and their children. When victims who face life-threatening abuse reach out for help, we must make sure they have the resources and support they need to be safe and secure.  Yet, during the economic downturn many domestic violence programs are struggling to meet the increased demand for life-saving services as their budgets are shrinking.  FVPSA funding is needed now more than ever!

Take Action Now!

Call these key Senators today and urge them to allocate at least $133.7 million (the funding level passed by the House) for FVPSA.  These Senators have leadership roles on the Appropriations Committee and play a vital role in determining funding levels. 

Senator Daniel K. Inouye (D-HI) - 202.224.3934

Chairman of the Senate Appropriations Committee.

Senator Tom Harkin (D-IA) - 202.224.3254

Chairman of the Senate Labor, Health and Human Services, Education and Related Agencies Subcommittee.

Senator Thad Cochran (R-MS) - 202.224.5054

Ranking Member of the Senate Labor, Health and Human Services, Education and Related Agencies Subcommittee.

Never called a Member of Congress before? Don't worry, it's easy!

Your call will be answered by a receptionist.  Tell her or him:

"Hello, my name is _____."

"I strongly urge Senator [last name] to fund the Family Violence Prevention and Services Act (FVPSA) at $133.7 million, the funding level passed by the House.

"FVPSA is the only dedicated source of federal funding for vital lifesaving services to victims of domestic violence and their children and needs to be increased to meet the growing demand for services."

"Thank you."

If you have time, also share a story about how domestic violence services have positively impacted your community. 

After you've made the call, please send us a quick note to let us know you've made the call and tell us how it went!  We'd especially like to hear from you if this is your first time making a call to Congress - let us know what that was like for you - you words will inspire others!  Send your follow up email to actnow@stopfamilyviolence.org

Thank you for being a voice for survivors of domestic violence.

Background

Both the House of Representatives and the Senate have included funding for FVPSA in their Appropriations (funding) bills and now these two bills need to be combined into one bill for the President to sign.  The House has requested more funding than the Senate and it is vital we secure the House's funding amount in the final bill!

Earlier this year the House and Senate both passed separate Appropriations bills.  Critical decisions are being made now as the two bills are being combined into the final bill for the President to sign.

  • FVPSA is currently authorized at $175 million but only received $127.7 million in fiscal year 2009.
  • For fiscal year 2010, the Senate requested $127.7 million in funding for FVPSA, (the same level as fiscal year 2009) while the House of Representatives requested an increased level of $133.7 million!
  • Recognizing the need for specific services for children, Congress determined that once FVPSA funding reached $130 million, a portion of funding over $130 million will be dedicated to programs serving children.
  • Since the existing funding does not meet the need for emergency services and does not provide specific support resources for specialized children's services, it is critical that the Senate agree to the House approved funding of $133.7 million.

Facts on FVPSA

  • To respond to the needs of victims of domestic violence, there are approximately 2,000 community based domestic violence programs serving approximately 300,000 victims and their children every year.
  • FVPSA is effective - the domestic violence shelters and programs it funds address both the urgent and long-term needs of victims of violence and help victims protect themselves and their children.
  • Despite FVPSA's successes there is still a large gap between demand for services and adequate resources - on just one day in 2008, 60,799 victims received services from domestic violence programs while 8,927 requests for services went unmet due to a lack of resources.

Thanks for your quick action on this.

Together, we can www.stopfamilyviolence.org

Irene Weiser

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Fathers Who Kill to Avoid Child Support Payments

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Battered Mothers Rights - A Human Rights Issue.

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Ms. No Single Mama Drama's Blog

 

 

Fathers Who Kill to Avoid Child Support Payments

December 6, 2009   Ms. No Single Mama Drama

Fathers Who Kill to Avoid Child Support Payments
Los Angeles, California
Ms. No Single Mama Drama
nosinglemamadrama@yahoo.com


Cameron Brown–who had no interest in his child whatsoever–is accused of throwing his four-year-old daughter off a cliff  at Inspiration Point to avoid paying $1000.00 a month in court-ordered child support.

Brown, 47, is being charged with the murder of his four-year-old daughter, Lauren Sarane Key, along with the special circumstances of lying in wait and murder for financial gain.

Two trials have resulted in juries deadlocking as to the charge–1st degree murder, 2nd degree murder or manslaughter– resulting a mistrial. No one voted not guilty.

Brown, who denied the charge of murder, saying it was an accident, is in custody.  Read the full story>> and Cameron Brown Trial Blog>>

“That Check Ain’t Yours, Ma!”
December 6, 2009- 3 p.m. – 4 p.m. E.S.T. on
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Dad Kills Son, Throws Him in Bag and Claims Kidnapping
New Orleans, Louisiana – Danny Platt, 22, claims to have been under a lot of pressure when he was $4,000 behind in child support payments. So, to relieve himself from the overwhelming “pressure”, he decided to kill his two-year-old son, Ja’ Shawn Platt during a visit.

To cover up his crime, he called up his ex-wife and told her that three men, armed with AK-47s, had kidnapped their son and abruptly hung up the phone. Platt eventually confessed, saying that he was either going to kill his wife or his son. Read the full story here>>

Is it really that serious? To the point where you have to kill your kids to avoid paying child support?


Categories:Baby Daddy Drama, Child Support, Family Drama, Relationship Drama, UncategorizedTags:cameron brown, child support murders, Danny Platt, Fahters who kill kids, fathers kill own children,Fathers who kill to avoid child support, Lauren Sarane Key, when child support kills

Babies and Baby Mama Killer X 2: Hunt for Baby’s Daddy

December 6, 2009Ms. No Single Mama DramaLeave a comment

Babies and Baby Mama Killer X 2: Hunt for Babies’ Daddy
Ms. No Single Mama Drama
nosinglemamadrama@yahoo.com

Tyrone M. Adair, 38, of Madison, Wisconsin is suspected of killing two of his both of his babies’ mamas and both of his daughters.

The first victims, Tracy Graser, 33, who also goes by Tracy Judd and her 23-month old daughter, Deja Adair, who would have turned two on Christmas day.

“That Check Ain’t Yours, Ma!”
December 6, 2009- 3 p.m. – 4 p.m. E.S.T. on
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Both Graser and Deja Adair were found dead inside of the trunk of Adair’s car. The police had searched the car twice before they finally found the victims hidden in the trunk.

Read more…

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Side Hustles: Five You Can Start Today for $100 or Less

December 5, 2009Ms. No Single Mama Drama2 comments

Side Hustles: Five You Can Start Today for $100 or Less
Ms. No Single Mama Drama
nosinglemamadrama@yahoo.com
As a single mom, money–or lack thereof–is probably top of mind most of the time, right?

Which, of course, was the cause of most of my single mama drama.

Well, you’re not alone. As I’ve stated in my previous side hustle posts, money was a challenge for me, too.

Until I did one thing: I changed the way I think about money.

When I was in constant lack, I always spoke of money in terms of not having.

Recommended Reading:
The Total Money Makeover:
A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness

And, guess what? I never had any.

I was always saying, jokingly, to myself and to everyone that I didn’t have enough money to even buy my son diapers.

One day, that came true.

Read more…

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Police searching for Toronto man for murder of 26-year-old mother in Wellesley Street high-rise apartment

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Whos Killing Families?.

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Police searching for Toronto murder suspect

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/toronto/police-searching-for-toronto-murder-suspect/article1390504/

Toronto Police have released this image of Levi Aggek, wanted in the slaying of 26-year-old Spring Phillips.

Levi Aggek wanted for murder of 26-year-old mother in Wellesley Street high-rise apartment

  • Karen Howlett

    Toronto — Globe and Mail UpdatePublished on Sunday, Dec. 06, 2009 1:13PM ESTLast updated on Sunday, Dec. 06, 2009 1:24PM EST

    Toronto homicide detectives issued a Canada-wide warrant on Sunday for Levi Samuel Aggek, who is facing second-degree murder charges for the brutal killing of a young mother he met just days earlier.

    Spring Phillips, 26, was found dead in her apartment on Saturday afternoon.

    “There was obvious trauma to the body,” Detective Hank Idsinga of the Toronto Police Homicide Squad, said at a news conference on Sunday. “She was pronounced dead at the scene.”

    Ms. Phillips, the mother of a three-year-old daughter, has become the city's 56th homicide victim this year.

    It was her ex-boyfriend who made the gruesome discovery just after 12:30 on Saturday afternoon, when he arrived at her apartment in the city's east end so the two could go shopping. He was the one who called police.

    However, the alleged murder happened several hours earlier. Neighbours in the high-rise apartment building heard fighting and screaming in the wee hours of the morning, but did not call police, Detective Idsinga said.

    A video camera in the building shows Mr. Aggek waiting for the elevator on the 27th floor of the apartment building at 200 Wellesley Street East, known as The Montreal, just before 5 in the morning. The video shows him calmly walking out of building, before casually bending down to pick up what appears to be a cigarette.

    An autopsy will be done on Monday to determine the cause of death.

    “It appears some sort of instrument was used,” Detective Idsinga said, adding that there was “quite a bit of blood” throughout the one-bedroom apartment.

    Detective Idsinga would not speculate on a motive for the murder. Ms. Phillips had agreed to let Mr. Aggek sleep in her apartment on Saturday night. He described the two as casual acquaintances. Her daughter was not there at the time – the child lives with her father's family.

    Mr. Aggek, a 33-year-old native Indian, had been in Toronto for only two to three months and was living in shelters. He is originally from Atlantic Canada, where he is known to police, said Detective Idsinga, declining to elaborate.

    Mr. Aggek is described as 5' 9” and 170 pounds with brown eyes, a moustache and short black hair. He was wearing a red hoodie, black track pants and a camouflage cap when he emerged from the apartment building.

    Ms. Phillips is also native Indian and known to police – she has been charged with theft and shoplifting in the past.

    Police have sealed off the 27th floor of the apartment building while they continue to investigate. They are searching bus stations and local shelters for Mr. Aggek.

    Police photo of Levi Aggek, wanted on a Canada-wide warrant in death of Spring Phillips, 26.

    Police photo of Levi Aggek, wanted on a Canada-wide warrant in death of Spring Phillips, 26.

    Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Whos Killing Families?.

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    Man thought to have killed pregnant girlfriend 28 year old Kristen Chavez in Blanco : taken off life support

    Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Whos Killing Families?.

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    This is a special post from my friend/family their statement follows:

    Kristin Chavez, dead, NM, 2009.
    Preg. w/ her sixth child. shot in her home while caring for her other children, all girls. Shot to her death by her boyfriend while both his parents were present. His mother was attempting to remove all of her grand daughters and aide Kristen when the father of the children and grandfather removed Kristen to another room where she was found shot to death and her unborn child remained dead w/n her body.


    Joe Montano and LaDessa de la cruz has posted this statementany further comment can be sought via this post. May God have mercy on the life of these children.

     

    Updated at 7:30am -- Suspected Killer Dies in ABQ Hospital

    By ABQNews Staff

    Tuesday, 01 December 2009 07:30

    Man thought to have killed girlfriend in Blanco on Nov. 22 taken off life support.

    Manuel Gutierrez III, the 28-year-old man suspected of killing his girlfriend in Blanco and of shooting himself in Albuquerque two days later, was taken off life support at an Albuquerque hospital Friday and died shortly after, authorities told the Farmington Daily Times on Monday.

    Although Gutierrez appeared to have shot himself in the head, Albuquerque police are awaiting final autopsy results before ruling his death a suicide and have been investigating the possibility that he may have been the victim of a violent crime, the Daily Times said.

    "Whether it was self-inflicted or not is unknown," Albuquerque Police Department spokeswoman Nadine Hamby told the paper. "We need to make sure the physical evidence on the body matches up with a suicide."

    Gutierrez was found lying by a ditch by Albuquerque police on Nov. 24 and was positively identified only after fingerprint verification, Hamby told the Daily Times.

    San Juan County sheriff's deputies believe Gutierrez fled to Albuquerque after shooting and killing his girlfriend, 28-year-old Kristin Chavez on Nov. 22 in their Blanco home while their three children were in the house, the Daily Times said.


    9:05am 11/25/09 UPDATE: A man who may be a suspect in the fatal shooting of his girlfriend last weekend in Blanco was found Monday evening with an apparently self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head by an irrigation ditch near 2nd Street and Montano in Albuquerque, 770 KKOB Radio is reporting.

    San Juan County detectives believe the man is Manuel Gutierrez III, based on his tattoos and a handgun found with the man, and Albuquerque police are hoping to establish his identity through fingerprints, KKOB said.


    6:40am 11/25/09 -- Blanco Shooting Suspect May Be in ABQ Hospital: Man sought in Sunday's fatal shooting of girlfriend believed to have shot himself.

    Manuel Gutierrez III, the man San Juan County sheriff's deputies were seeking in the shooting death Sunday of his girlfriend, 28-year-old Kristin Chavez, may be the man clinging to life in an Albuquerque hospital after being found Tuesday morning with a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head, sheriff's Capt. Tim Black told theFarmington Daily Times.

    "We believe it's him but still are working with Albuquerque police to establish a positive identification," Black told the paper.

    Deputies suspect Gutierrez, 28, was the man who shot and killed Chavez inside their Blanco home Sunday evening, while the couple's three children were inside the house, the Daily Times said.

    Police in Albuquerque matched five tattoos to those Gutierrez was known to have, including eye markings and the name Gutierrez tattooed on his neck, and the revolver found with the man on Tuesday matches the description of the handgun Gutierrez had at the time of the homicide, the paper reported.

    The Daily Times reported that nine years ago Gutierrez threatened to shoot Chavez and then shoot himself.


    5:55am 112409 -- Blanco Woman Shot to Death: Boyfriend sought on an open count of murder for allegedly killing mother of three.

    A Blanco woman was shot and killed Sunday evening inside her home while her three young daughters were there, San Juan County sheriff's Capt. Tim Black told theFarmington Daily Times.

    Deputies believe Kristin Chavez, 28, was shot by her boyfriend, Manuel Gutierrez III, who is being sought on a warrant charging an open count of murder, the Daily Times said.

    The couple's three daughters, ages 2, 6 and 8, were in the living room of the home while the shooting apparently occurred in a bedroom, the paper reported.

    The suspect's mother, Traci Gutierrez, told deputies she was bringing the couple's 2-year-old daughter back to the residence when Chavez asked to leave the home with her, Black told the Daily Times.

    Traci Gutierrez told deputies that her son pushed Chavez and slammed the bedroom door when the mother went to get some things and that she heard several gunshots, the Daily Times said.

    The suspect's father, Manuel Gutierrez Jr., who also lived in the house, was heard shouting "No, no" from another part of the mobile home, Traci Gutierrez told authorities.

    Traci Gutierrez took the children to a friend's house, where she called 911, and deputies arrived around 6:45 p.m. Sunday, the Daily Times said.

    The weapon allegedly used in the shooting wasn't found, and Manuel Gutierrez III remains at large and is considered armed and dangerous, Black told the paper.

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    Judge Reverses Parental Alienation Ruling After Warshak Admits He Hadn’t Met Children

    Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Crisis in the Family Courts; Our Children are at Risk~!.

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    Judge Reverses Parental Alienation Ruling After Warshak Admits He Hadn’t Met Children

    Filed under: Best interest of the child, Canada, Child Custody, Child Custody Battle, Civil rights, Corrupt bastards, Custody Evaluators, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Violence, Dr. Richard Gardner, Dr.. Richard Warshak, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, Getting Screwed by the Whores of the Court, Judicial Immunity, Legal abuse, Parental Alienation Syndrome, custody evaluations, parental alienation — justice4mothers @ 12:46 pm

    Setback for PAS  pushers.  No wonder Warshak is pushing it so hard, along with the other Whores of the Court that make a very nice income off of this. They  chase after the blood money in family courts.  From the Law Times:

    Judge reverses parental alienation ruling
    Controversial trend continues because opposing parents lack funds: lawyer

    By Heather Capannelli | Publication Date: Monday, 09 November 2009

    In another case underscoring the controversy over parental alienation workshops, Justice Thea Herman of the Ontario Superior Court struck down part of an arbitrator’s award earlier this year that would have removed two teenage boys from the custody of their father and sent them to Texas. The decision follows a series of judgments in which Ontario courts have ordered a change in custody and sent the custodial parent along with the children to participate in the workshop.

    In S.G.B. v. S.J.L., the court set aside part of an award concluding that the workshop was in the best interest of the boys because the arbitrator relied too heavily on an assessment of them prepared by Richard Warshak, who admitted he hadn’t met them personally.

    In his testimony and written evidence, the psychologist and author explicitly declined to make recommendations with respect to the children because he had never observed them before.

    Yet the arbitrator ordered that the remedy was “necessary for the children in this case and completely consonant with their best interests.” Herman, however, decided that in making such a finding, the arbitrator’s order amounted to a “fundamental error.”

    Another issue arose prior to the hearing when the father asked the arbitrator to order an assessment to determine the appropriateness of the workshop for the children.

    The arbitrator declined to do so, instead relying on his own experience as a custody and access assessor. But Herman rebuked that decision, saying “the arbitrator’s experience can only be brought to bear on the evidence. The arbitrator cannot create evidence.”

    In addition, Herman said the arbitrator failed to consider the psychological impact the workshop would have on the younger boy. He suffered from Klinefelter syndrome, a genetic disorder that, among other things, caused a language delay.

    The facts of the case were as follows. The applicant, the father, and the respondent mother entered into the arbitration to help resolve issues surrounding their two sons L.B. and J.B., aged 17 and 14 respectively. The parents had been divorced since May 1999 and since then, the mother experienced an estranged relationship with both of her children.

    After several attempts to resolve disputes about custody, access, and raising the children, both parents agreed to what turned out to be an unsuccessful arbitration in August 2007.

    The proceedings were due to continue on Nov. 20, 2007, but the father brought a pre-hearing motion to prevent the arbitrator from making an order that might result in the children leaving the province given that the mother had been in consultation with Warshak for several years despite the fact that he had never met the boys. The motion was denied.

    The arbitration took place in February and March 2008 and, based on Warshak’s report that the children were suffering irrational alienation towards their mother, the arbitrator awarded sole custody of both children to her and ordered that they participate in the workshop to help to restore their ties with her.

    Logistically, this meant no contact with their father for the three months that the boys were in the program. Once the workshop concluded, communications could resume as long as those in charge authorized them.

    The order also allowed the mother to use transporting agents to take her children to the workshop in Texas if they were unwilling to go on their own volition.

    “The work of Dr. Warshak has been submitted for peer review so it’s not as controversial as the media hype may lead some to believe,” says Jaret Moldaver, counsel for the mother. “Dr. Warshak has successfully worked with children who have been alienated, and in cases where conventional approaches don’t work, it’s the only viable option to save the child from abuse.”

    A larger issue, however, is that often these cases come down to a battle of costly expert evidence, says the father’s counsel, Jan Weir.

    “My concern is that in most of these cases, it appears that one parent has the financial means to retain high-end counsel and experts like Dr. Warshak, but the other parent seems to have modest means and never retains an expert, meaning that they can’t lead evidence against the findings or methodology of Dr. Warshak.”

    A week at the workshop costs about US$40,000.
    According to Warshak, parental alienation syndrome is “a child’s unjustified campaign of denigration against, or rejection of, one parent, due to the influence of the other parent combined with the child’s own contributions.”

    It is recognized as a form of emotional abuse that happens when parents get so caught up in their own problems that they lose sight of their children’s needs.

    In an interview in 2008 with Maclean’s magazine, Warshak said the workshop “teaches children how to stay out of the middle of adult conflicts and how to maintain a compassionate view toward each parent” and that it helps the child “recapture a major part of his identity.

    When the child no longer feels the need to pledge allegiance to one parent by rejecting the other, that’s enormously liberating.”

    But Weir says the test in law for admissibility of expert evidence is whether it’s generally accepted by the profession. That’s because courts don’t interpret the evidence of experts on their own. “Is this a method that’s generally accepted by the profession at large?” says Weir.

    “This kind of evidence is getting in because the parents who are on the receiving end just don’t have the funds to retain an expert to say that it’s not, that it’s untested.”

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    Afghanistan and Obama's Point of No Return by Tim King (and a Battered Mothers perspective)

    Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Mothers Justice- Initiative Project.

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    I found the "Maslow's Hierachy of Needs" chart (below) in Tim King's article

    http://www.salem-news.com/articles/december032009/afghan_tk.php on the Afghan War very insightful and enlightening.

    The chart was enlightening for me because it identified the various levels of my needs for existence that my ex husband, his attorneys, pseudo Christian friends and the courts sought to destroy these past 14 years after I sought safety from domestic violence. 

    It has been a difficult journey in building an existence when you are constantly under attack and siege.  No wonder so many women choose not to "stay" in domestic violence situations.   Often the alternative is a full fledge war on their being.   Oprah and many counselors who recommend seeking safety from DV do not have a clue. 

    - Coral

    http://bonshea.com

    Dec-03-2009 02:00printcomments Video

    Afghanistan and Obama's Point of No Return

    Tim King Salem-News.com

    Taking a Stand in Afghanistan, Obama rolls the dice to push a war against a land of determined people, who have never been defeated on their own soil. (Includes previously unreleased Afghan video.)

    American troops in Afghanistan

    Americans on the move in the Afghan Countryside.
    All Afghanistan photos by Tim King unless otherwise noted.

    (SALEM, Ore.) - President Obama's decision to push on in Afghanistan will be remembered as a point of no return for this war. The forces that our military will increasingly engage are well armed and they are smart. It isn't going to be easy.

    I left Afghanistan with many impressions after spending the winter of 2006/2007 there. I used the opportunity to study the military operation and the people engaging the Coalition in combat. I left Afghanistan with a great impression of its hearty people.

    I saw the killing tree at Jalalabad, where Usama bin Laden is said to have trained al Queda soldiers. I went into the prison where I was told so many Afghan people were held and executed. These were people who resisted a radical militant agenda.

    It is easy for western people to forget that most Afghans are just family people trying to survive "day by day" as the occasional English-speaking Afghan often tends to say when describing their difficult life.

    My friend Mattiulah worked as an interpreter or "terp" for U.S. forces. He shared horrible stories about the Taliban; he said they decapitated his brotherwith a knife, leaving behind his five children as orphans. And then a group of them drove by his house in a pick-up truck and shot and killed his two-year old daughter. Then his mom died of a broken heart.

    I met women who had been relegated to wheelchairs by bombs they said the Taliban specifically set. I interviewed a ten-year old boy in Kabul, who told me he appreciated the Americans because, "They kill the Taliban and help bring peace and prosperity to our nation."

    Personally, for what it is worth, I think the Taliban were nothing more than thugs operating a totalitarian regime using religion as an excuse. It is not a theory that they treat or have treated women in ways that even hardened people in relatively normal societies would never tolerate. But that begs the question, what isa normal society?

    I was working on a film project in California a few weeks ago, when the news flashed a story about an American high school girl who was gang raped at a high school dance while people simply walked by, ignoring her cries for help.

    My colleague Dexter Phoenix watched a man in Spain beat a young woman in a city street, with a motorcycle crash helmet. A crowd gathered to watch and a police officer monitoring the incident blocked Dexter from intervening, indicating that it was not his business. This is shocking, this is the western world we're talking about, Spain, and the couple was local.

    As much as I despise the acts of the Taliban, I wonder what could have been accomplished if we tried to bring about peace without simply increasing our military might. I guess we'll never know. I do know that President Obama can talk about how we're not an occupying force until he's blue in the face, and he will never be right. In the eyes of the Afghan people, particularly those who oppose NATO for whatever particular reason, it is nothing but another occupational military force.

    Reality of Afghanistan

    So what are the answers? I am not sure. I receive a lot of email from parents of mostly Marines, but other services also. Sometimes it is a bit unnerving. They find my reports from Afghanistan and Iraq and they write to ask if I am going back, and if so they want to know if I can go where their kids are so they can learn more about what is going on.

    There is a sad lack of reporting from this place and it makes no sense.

    As a result of its violent past, Afghanistan has more land mines than any other country in the world. There are mountains everywhere you turn, with steep and difficult terrain that is tough to negotiate.

    The history of Afghanistan is tribal, and there are several distinct cultural groups who live here. There are historic rivalries and difficulties and borders that have been redrawn by western nations have not helped to keep the peace.

    When I was there aircraft were in short supply, and we drove roads that made the people I traveled with very uncomfortable. They talked openly about the lack of air transport and the risks it brought.

    The risks are shared by all here, and the lack of any sound financial infrastructure keeps the situation tense. Poor and hungry people do not operate with any degree of normality, as referenced above. As long as they wonder where their next meal is coming from, they are dangerous and not very trustworthy.

    Never released video from Kabul Afghanistan: interviews with Afghan cops

    Glaring points that stood out clearly when I was in country included the lack of pay for the Afghan National Police, and the Afghan National Army.

    The anti-Coalition militias pay more, that is a real problem. Bringing Afghanistan forward will require a great deal of cash and support. Their police should have bullet proof vests, they should receive winter clothing, the list goes on and on.

    I produced a brand new report that shows the entire interview that I conducted with two Afghan National Police officers in Kabul in December 2006. How much things have changed, I can not say for sure. The price of flour for example has skyrocketed since these interviews. The ANP as they are generally known, were making roughly $70 a month when I spoke to them.

    These officers talk about how their particular police station is supposed to be be staffed by 35 people, but they only have 10. They asked me repeatedly if I would give them my gloves.

    The way the Afghan police live is only one example of how the disparity of this country and the way it breeds political instability.

    I have written before about how President George W. Bush started and then soon killed, theAfghan Children's Fund. As I witnessed the appalling conditions that Afghan children lived under, I could scarcely believe that my country was there, and that things were still so bad for these people. I think they are a bit worse today, all these years later.

    Maslow's hierarchy of needs

    An interpretation of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, represented as a pyramid with
    the more basic needs at the bottom Courtesy: Wikipedia

    Many psychology students are familiar with Abraham Maslow'shierarchy of needs; it is a theory of psychology that Maslow proposed in his 1943 paper, A Theory of Human Motivation.

    Wikipedia describes Maslow's hierarchy of needs as a pyramid consisting of five levels:

    The lowest level is associated with physiological needs, while the uppermost level is associated with self-actualization needs, particularly those related to identity and purpose. The higher needs in this hierarchy only come into focus when the lower needs in the pyramid are met. Once an individual has moved upwards to the next level, needs in the lower level will no longer be prioritized. If a lower set of needs is no longer be met, the individual will temporarily re-prioritize those needs by focusing attention on the unfulfilled needs, but will not permanently regress to the lower level. For instance, a businessman at the esteem level who is diagnosed with cancer will spend a great deal of time concentrating on his health (physiological needs), but will continue to value his work performance (esteem needs) and will likely return to work during periods of remission.

    Afghanistan's people, with few exceptions, have had little opportunity to rebuild a sound life and culture. Some have money but most have next to nothing.

    Until the basic needs of these people are met, their futures are dismal at best. One out of five children won't make it until the age of five.

    I was told by local people that the average there is somewhere in the 40's. WikiAnswers states that "The Life expectancy in Afghanistan is about 45 for a female and 46 for a male."

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    Winning Afghan Hearts and Minds report by Tim King

    But our military isn't authorized to treat Afghan citizens with any real degree of frequency. I attended a MEDCAP mission and spent several hours watching military medical teams from three western countries treat 399 of these unfortunate people. They couldn't do much for most, but bottles of Tylenol and baby formula were regarded as though they were gold.

    Women desperately pushed and competed for a better place in line with one another, all believing that they would miss their opportunity to see a real western doctor.

    I was told by both American and British doctors in Kabul that simple medical care could do wonders for the people there. Doctor Harry Ward of Los Angeles California, said that day, that the most basic care on a regular basis would do wonders. "Many of them be helped with just preventive care and regular care, and regular doctor medical care and definitely with a new health system here, I think this could be turned around."

    Again, the soldiers, doctors and nurses, the people on the ground, do everything they possibly can, but their hands are tied, as are the national wallets. The money that funded the MEDCAP was charity, and the military groups only donated the people, as if that is a small matter. The rules still need to change and money should be allotted for regular medical treatment of Afghan civilians.

    They are grateful for anything positive they can receive from our presence there, and there needs to be a lot more. We can only depend on people who are fed, to cover our back and show courage in the face of an enemy like the Taliban.

    I soon began seeing this lack of commitment in the spirit of the mission everywhere I turned. It wasn't a lack of spirit from the U.S. forces, but from much higher above. Of course then everyone in Afghanistan believed they were fighting a forgotten war. Many told me they were totally shocked to see a reporter and a camera from the states. I soon got used to it.

    While new people are always going to war for the first time, a large number of the Americans serving in Afghanistan have already seen too much war. They become impatient with the local people and sometimes become reckless. It isn't necessarily their fault; war takes a toll on a person's psyche.

    Too much of anything I have always been told, is a bad idea. I don't see how repeated combat tours are any different, or the war in Afghanistan as a general concept for that matter. Any examination of history shows that long lasting wars are demoralizing. I sure hope Obama has a plan that goes beyond simply killing all of the people who oppose our occupational force, on their own land. I don't think he does.

    We now know how things will go and a lot more Americans will go to Afghanistan to wage war with the Taliban and al Queda, groups who increasingly referring to themselves as the Mujaheddin in an apparent PR stunt, and comparing themselves to the fighters who freed this remote country from a Soviet occupation during the 1980's. Reporters are jumping on board with the language too, and some are seriously downplaying the Taliban's past, and that is sort of like glamorizing the Nazi's, in its own way.

    Afghan Hero Ahmad Massoud was the "Lion of Panjshir"

    Articles now are increasingly referring to the Taliban as "Mujaheddin" and while elements of today's Taliban and al Queda obviously did participate in the defeat of the Soviet occupation in the 1980's, thus belonging to the group commonly called Mujaheddin, we are talking about unique groups, of which there were many.

    The real hero of Afghanistan is no Taliban or al Queda leader, it is Ahmad Shah Massoud, who was killed on September 9th 2001, two days before the attack on the United States.

    He was a Kabul University engineering student and the son of a police commander, who as a military leader was a large operator in the defeat and ousting of the Soviet army in 1989. An ethnic Tajik, he became known as the "Lion of Panjshir" and his face is posted on everything in Afghanistan from billboards and buildings, to the back of "jingle trucks" moving down the country's highways.

    He was a leader in the "Northern Alliance" as it became known, and one of many leaders in this country who wrestled with political control while trying to bring a moderate type of government to his people.

    Massoud ascended up the political ladder, and was the Afghan government's Defense Minister when he finally ordered a retreat from Kabul on September 26, 1996. He had little choice, as Taliban forces had encircled the capital.

    It is a popular belief in Afghanistan and beyond, that bin Laden ordered Massoud's assassination, two days before the September 11, 2001 attacks on the United States, on behalf of the Taliban, who served essentially as al Queda's protectors.

    The Lion of Panjshir, the most brilliant and best educated (militarily)
    of the mujahideen, fiercely independent of even the CIA and ISI, murdered
    by Osama bin Laden on September 9, 2001. Photo: farm1.static.flickr.com

    His death ensured that bin Laden would have the Taliban's protection and co-operation in Afghanistan. The assassins posed as a TV news team from Belgium, and it is reported that they offered words of support for bin Laden while questioning Massoud, before killing him with a TV camera rigged as a bomb.

    Ahmad Massoud, the "Lion of Panjshir", was the kind of leadership figure Afghanistan needed, but this violent place lacked the security to usher him into a better position. The Taliban and al Queda opposed this man and those who sympathize with these groups do his legacy a great injustice.

    I am not happy that we are sending 30,000 more people into Afghanistan, I am worried on their behalf, and I am worried about the collateral damage and the way that turns more people against our forces and their mission.

    On that note, I am bothered by the Americans who blame the Afghan people at large; that is cruel and possibly evil, especially when you consider the wretched lives of these human beings who for the most part, couldn't even point to the United States on a map.

    The U.S. military and its allies will perform this mission and either be successful, and prevail, or it will become a conflict that goes on for years and years, demanding American taxpayer resources and claiming more and more lives. It is a place where all previous invading armies have been repelled. I hope it is worth it.

    Resource articles:

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    IED's Blamed in at Least Half of Latest Iraq and Afghanistan War Casualties

    Unemployment & Low Pay in Afghanistan & Iraq Bolster Insurgency

    U.S. Marines and an Afghanistan Ghost Town Called Now Zad

    War Reporting and Propaganda in Iraq and Afghanistan

    An Inside Look at the Helmand Province in Southwest Afghanistan

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    Tim King is a former U.S. Marine with twenty years of experience on the west coast as a television news producer, photojournalist, reporter and assignment editor. In addition to his role as a war correspondent, this Los Angeles native serves as Salem-News.com's Executive News Editor.
    Tim spent the winter of 2006/07 covering the war in Afghanistan, and he was in Iraq over the summer of 2008, reporting from the war while embedded with both the U.S. Army and the Marines. Tim holds numerous awards for reporting, photography, writing and editing, including the Oregon AP Award for Spot News Photographer of the Year (2004), the first place Electronic Media Award in Spot News, Las Vegas, (1998), Oregon AP Cooperation Award (1991); and several other awards including the 2005 Red Cross Good Neighborhood Award for reporting. Serving the community in very real terms, Salem-News.com is the nation's only truly independent high traffic news Website, affiliated with Google News and several other major search engines and news aggregators.
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