16.2.10

(Texas) Man Shoots Girlfriend in Head then kills himself

Medical examiner rules Euless deaths as murder-suicide

http://www.star-telegram.com/news/story/1970169.html

Posted Tuesday, Feb. 16, 2010

BY DOMINGO RAMIREZ JR.

ramirez@star-telegram.com

EULESS -- K’Lynn Low hinted on her Facebook page about a problem with her boyfriend.

On Dec. 30, Low, who identified herself as K’Lynn Tucker, wrote: “Y is it my bf can get mad at me and act like an a------ but I can’t.”

It turned tragic on Valentine’s Day.

The 31-year-old nurse and her boyfriend, Jeffrey Meekins, 34, were found dead in their Euless apartment in what police described as a murder-suicide.

Low was shot in the head, and her death was a homicide, the Tarrant County medical examiner’s office’s Web site reported Monday.

The office also ruled that Meekins died from a gunshot wound to the head. His death was ruled a suicide, according to medical examiner’s Web site on Tuesday.

A small handgun was found in the apartment in the 1000 block of East Ash Lane, but no note was found, Euless police Lt. John Williams said Monday.

Meekins’ and Low’s bodies were found on the living room floor, and the two were pronounced dead at 5:05 p.m. Sunday, according to the medical examiner’s Web site.

Officers had never been called to the apartment before, Williams said.

On her Facebook and MySpace pages, Low sounded happy in recent days.

On Wednesday, she wrote on her Facebook page: “All my friends have been so good 2 me.:). U Rock! All of U.”

The next day during the record snowfall, Low wrote: “Thank u Jesus for this beautiful snow. Pls help the Dallasians to drive in it.”

Meekins indicated that he liked her statement about the snow and Dallas drivers.

Euless police said people heard from the couple Saturday, and Low wrote on her MySpace page Sunday.

The bodies were found by a neighbor’s child who had come to the apartment to play with one of Low’s children, Williams said. Low had two children, but they were away for the weekend, police said.

Police canvassed the neighborhood, but they didn’t find anyone who had heard anything

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15.2.10

Mother of shooter says he sought help before FATHER killed her son; Family Courts Failed!

Note: Cross posted from [angelfury@live.com Blog.com] Mothers Global Justice Alliance.

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Mother of shooter says he sought help before murder-suicide in Greece

http://rocnow.com/article/local-news/20102150327

Nestor Ramos and Bennett J. Loudon – Staff writers
Local News – February 15, 2010 - 5:00am

In the days before he killed his 7-year-old son and then himself, Mark Resch had lost control of his life, said his mother.

“Just these last couple of days … he’d kind of given up,” Carol Gurgel said. “I was in contact with him every day. I knew he was overwhelmed with it all.”

At her urging, Resch saw a counselor last week. She had hoped to prevent him from harming himself, she said, never imagining he’d hurt his son, Hunter.

With the counselor, “he cried, and let out a lot of pain,” she said.

It wasn’t enough.

Friday, in an act local psychiatrists say can defy comprehension, Resch used a shotgun to kill Hunter T. Resch, 7, and then commit suicide. Police say he left behind a long note detailing the horrific plan he carried out.

Friends said Hunter was a happy child who loved his Cub Scout activities and had an easy smile.

“He was very friendly, always happy and loved Scouting. He was just a happy kid,” said Bob Watt, whose grandson is a member of the same Scout pack.

He had many friends at Paddy Hill Elementary School in Greece where he was nicknamed “The Mayor of Paddy Hill,” according to his obituary. He loved fishing and Legos.

But Hunter’s father had lost track of his own happiness this year, Gurgel said. In January, Resch lost his job and, with it, his car. Resch’s estranged wife left him Jan. 25 and got a temporary order of protection, which was made permanent on Feb. 8, according to Greece Police Chief Todd Baxter.

Catherine Cerulli, assistant professor of psychiatry at the University of Rochester School of Medicine and Dentistry, said murder-suicides are usually triggered by a “precipitating event,” such as a custody battle.

According to Baxter, Resch said in the note that he was acting out of spite and revenge against his wife.

“Every once in a while you get these cases where a parent will kill a child. To most of us, it makes no sense,” said Dr. Eric Caine, chairman of the department of psychiatry at the URMC Medical Center and co-director of the Center for the Study and Prevention of Suicide.

“This is the kind of thing that someone is so full of bitterness and hate that it blinds them,” he said.

Gurgel disputed Greece police’s characterization of her son as “a mean person.”

“He’s a very generous, gentle, kind person. But he did have mental issues,” Gurgel said.

“He was a recovering alcoholic (but) he hadn’t had any slips along the line. He was going to a lot of AA meetings.”

On Friday, Hunter’s mother, Susan Resch, called 911 about 7:30 p.m. to ask police to check on the welfare of her son at 491 Island Cottage Road. She told police she had just talked to her husband, who told her: “You’ll never make it here in time” to pick up the boy.

Susan Resch had sought an order of protection because Mark Resch allegedly threatened her life. As part of the order, he was prohibited from owning any guns and police had taken a shotgun from his home.

Brian J. Barney, a Rochester lawyer specializing in family law who has no connection to the case, said it’s not unusual for an order of protection to apply to a parent, but not a child.

When both parties go before a judge, the parent requesting the order often consents to visitation because they may not consider the other parent a threat to the child.

“It’s not a failure by the system. Based upon what I know, even when the system works the way it’s supposed to, our society does not presume people are going to go out and shoot people. We don’t function that way,” Barney said.

A funeral Mass for Hunter is scheduled for 9:30 a.m. Wednesday at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 3003 Dewey Ave., Greece. Calling hours will be held from 2 to 6 p.m. Tuesday at Vay-Schleich and Meeson Funeral Home, Greece Chapel, 1075 Long Pond Road.

The funeral for Mark Resch will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday at St. Leo’s Church, 167 Lake Ave., Hilton. Calling hours will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at Vay-Schleich and Meeson Funeral Home.

NRAMOS@DemocratandChronicle.com

BLOUDON@DemocratandChronicle.com

FOR PARENTS

The Greece Central School District’s Trauma, Injury and Grief team will hold a meeting for adults in the district at 9 a.m. today in the cafeteria of Paddy Hill Elementary School, 1801 Latta Road. It will offer advice on ways parents can communicate with their children about the tragedy. When school resumes on Feb. 22, the team will provide counselors for the classrooms most affected by the incident. The school has resources available on its Web site,http://web001.greece.k12.ny.us/paddy-hill.cfm.

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Clackamas County sheriff's deputy shot himself and three other women “Domestic Problems” end in murder-suicide,

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Family ‘devastated’ by Gresham murder-suicide

Uncle of shooter says family thought domestic problems were over

BY JANIE NAFSINGER, JIM HART AND JIM REDDEN

http://www.portlandtribune.com/news/story_2nd.php?story_id=126609734442689800

Pamplin Media Group, Feb 14, 2010, Updated 9.8 hours ago (28 Reader comments)

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JEFFREY GRAHN

 

The uncle of Jeffrey Grahn, a Clackamas County sheriff's deputy who shot himself and three other women in a murder-suicide, says the family is “devastated” by the killing.

Bob Yungeberg said Sunday from the family home in Boring that the family was dealing with a funeral home and the aftershocks of Friday’s shootings.

“That’s a major shock to them," Yungeberg said.

Grahn, 46, a Clackamas County sheriff’s deputy, shot and killed his wife, Charlotte, 47, at a Gresham restaurant on Friday night. At the same time, Grahn killed Kathleen Hoffmeister, 53, and critically wounded Victoria Schulmerich, 53, before turning the gun on himself.

Schulmerich was listed Sunday in critical condition at the Oregon Health & Science University.

Yungeberg said the Grahn family was not much different from others in the Boring neighborhood, where they lived.

“This was a typical family,” Yungeberg said. “The kids were heavily into sports.”

The family included three sons and a daughter, some from a previous marriage, with the youngest still in public schools.

The Grahns filed for divorce last year but decided to withdraw it from the court system, Yungeberg said.

“They had their problems, and we thought [the problems] had pretty much gone away because they had stopped the divorce proceedings,” said Yungeberg.

The shooting, which Gresham police say was part of a domestic dispute, occurred at about 9:30 p.m. on Friday, Feb. 12, when Grahn shot his wife and two other women with whom she was socializing inside the restaurant at 137 N. Main Ave., Gresham.

Jeffrey Grahn and Hoffmeister both died at the scene. Charlotte Grahn died Saturday afternoon at Emanuel Hospital. Schulmerich is listed in critical condition.

‘In the middle of a tragedy’

At a press conference Saturday evening, Gresham Mayor Shane T. Bemis, who is a downtown business owner, expressed condolences to the victims’ families and said that downtown Gresham is a safe place.

Family ‘devastated’ by Gresham murder-suicide

Uncle of shooter says family thought domestic problems were over

BY JANIE NAFSINGER, JIM HART AND JIM REDDEN

Pamplin Media Group, Feb 14, 2010, Updated 10.1 hours ago (28 Reader comments)

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“Our thoughts and prayers are with the families of the victims of last night’s shooting,” said Bemis, who was joined at the press conference by Cody Clark, owner of Café Delirium, and Gresham Police Captain Tim Gerkman. Clark and Gerkman also assured local residents that downtown Gresham is safe.

Friday night’s incident was the second downtown Gresham shooting in two weeks. On Jan. 29, 66-year-old Carroll L. Mayfield was accused of opening fire at the Gresham Players Club, a poker parlor 106 N. Main Ave., and wounding two men.

Gerkman said the two shootings are separate, unrelated incidents. He described Friday’s shooting as an act of domestic violence that happened at a place of business, and it was not a reflection of the city or of Gresham’s downtown business district.

“Domestic violence is hard to predict,” Gerkman said, adding that the two women with Charlotte Grahn were caught “in the middle of a tragedy.”

Heartbreaking event

Grahn was hired by the sheriff’s office in February 1995, and was promoted to sergeant in August 2003. In 2007, Grahn, along with another deputy, received a department commendation for their work handling security for the Clackamas County Courthouse.

At the time, a department press release said: “They've had to do this job during an extensive remodel – which creates a tremendous amount of extra work. For example, they had to monitor and run background checks on well over 100 remodeling contractors.”

The release went on to say that the pair “have only strengthened their reputations for being deeply committed.”

“Sgt. Grahn also supervises transportation to and from the courthouse, and he's worked miracles with a limited staff. He posts overtime. He has enhanced communication between the sheriff’s office and judicial and legal staffers. He expanded the use of plans, mission sheets and briefings to improve security,” according to the press release.

On Saturday, the Clackamas County Sheriff’s Office issued a much different statement – one that extended condolences to the families of all the victims.

“This heartbreaking event has resulted in multiple victims. Our devoted members of the Clackamas County Sheriff's Office wish to express and extend their sincere condolences to all the victim families involved that have received the blazing brunt of this heartbreaking event,” the statement said.

Anyone with any information is asked to call Gresham police at 503-618-2719.

Fox 12 contributed to this report.

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A Rough Summary of Murders by Dads with Child Visitation/Custody Rights for 2010

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 Dastardly Dads: A Rough Summary of Murders by Dads with Child Visitation/Custody Rights for 2010

 

I started to wonder just how many dads have murdered their children, the mother, or other related person where the dad's child visitation and/or custody rights played a role. I soon realized that this is a huge project. So I narrowed it down to names from articles I have found that have been published this year (2010). Some may refer to murders that took place in previous years, but are only now coming to trial, etc. Admittedly, this is a highly imprecise list. But it will give you a sense of the carnage.

AUSTRALIA

Freeman, Arthur Philip. Threw 3-year-old daughter off bridge, killing her. Had court-ordered visitation.

CALIFORNIA
Fuentes, Jesus Roman. Shot to death 4-year-old son during visitation.
Garcia, Stephen Charles. Shot to death 9-month-old son during court-ordered visitation. Mother's pleas ignored by 3 judges.
Brown, Cameron. Facing third trial for murdering 4-year-old daughter by pushing her off cliff. Allegedly wanted to avoid child support.

CANADA

McKenzie, Kelly David. Murdered girlfriend while 9-year-old son was in his home on an "access visit."

CHINA

Kang, Liu. Beat to death 12-year-old daughter. Appears to have been custodial father (divorced from girl's mother, girl lived with father).

IDAHO

Bacon, Nicholas. Shot to death 9-month-old son during visitation Had joint custody.

INDIANA

Bohannon, Ronald A. Shot to death 14-month-old son during visitation. Convicted of reckless homicide.

KENTUCKY

Frazier, Timothy. Murdered 21-month-old son after obtaining custody with police help through fraudulent EPO. Mother is now suing the police and the City.

MISSOURI

Robinson, Nathaniel. Murdered 3-year-old son after obtaining custody 1 month before.

OHIO

Mammone, James III. Stabbed his two children to death, beat to death former mother-in-law. Had been granted visitation rights.

OREGON

Cockerel, Donald L. Along with girlfriend, charged with starving, beating to death 3-year-old daughter. Dad had "shared custody," but had been refusing to return the child to her mother.

SWEDEN

Hensvold, Martin. Shot his ex-wife "execution style" while she was picking up their 2-year-old son.

TEXAS

Desormeaux, Leo IV. Murdered 21-month-old son during visitation.

Watrous, Duke Lawrence. Custodial father who shot to death 10-year-old daughter.

UNITED KINGDOM

Copland, Andrew. Murdered his 4-year-old daughter and her mother while the mother was dropping off the child for an "access visit."

Posted by silverside at 9:43 AM

Labels: child custody, child death, child murder, custody/visitation,murder

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Justice endorses JAMES HOSKING for JUDGE, San Bernardino County, California, running against Judge Robert "Liar, Liar" Lemkau, who denied a Katie Tagle a restraining order, leading to the death of her baby

Justice endorses JAMES HOSKING for JUDGE, San Bernardino County, California, running against Judge Robert "Liar, Liar" Lemkau, who denied a Katie Tagle a restraining order, leading to the death of her baby

Message from Judicial Candidate James Hosking: "I am a Deputy District Attorney in San Bernardino County, and am now running for Superior Court Judge against Judge Bob Lemkau based in part upon being outraged by his ruling that allowed this baby to be murdered by his psychotic father."

http://www.ElectHosking.org
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Dad faces murder rap after River Avon car plunge girl Gabrielle Grady dies

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2010/02/15/dad-faces-murder-rap-after-river-avon-car-plunge-girl-gabrielle-grady-dies-115875-22043637/

By Rebecca Evans 15/02/2010

A girl of five left critical when her father plunged his car into a river lost her fight for life yesterday.

Gabrielle Grady's brother Ryan, six, and dad Christopher escaped the submerged vehicle but she was trapped for two hours.

Police divers finally freed her but she died in hospital yesterday, three days after the horror.

Close relatives were at her bedside as she passed away.

Ryan was initially also critically ill when he was airlifted to Birmingham's Children's Hospital with his sister following Thursday's rescue. But the lad was said to be "recovering quite well" yesterday.

On Saturday, their dad, 41, was remanded in custody by Worcester magistrates charged with attempting to murder the youngsters.

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Detectives say the death means the tragedy is now a murder probe. Grady, of no fixed address, is due at Worcester crown court on Thursday. He drove his Vauxhall Vectra across a field into the River Avon in Evesham, Worcs, on Thursday morning.

The children's mum Kim Wise, from whom he is separated, lives nearby. Bystander Martin Waites, 56, said: "I could hear a screech of brakes and then saw the car driving fast through a field. The car hit the water with an almighty bang and floated for a few seconds. Then I saw two children in the back seat screaming and banging on the window, trying to get out."

Grady and Ryan were out of the car when paramedics arrived. But Gabrielle, known as Gabby, was still inside. West Mercia police said they could not rescue her because of the risk to their men and had to call divers from neighbouring Avon & Somerset. They took 97 minutes to arrive and a further 12 to free her.

Det Supt Stephen Cullen, leading the probe, said of her death: "We are very sad to hear this terrible news. All our thoughts are with Gabby's family at this difficult time."

A police spokesman confirmed: "Gabrielle passed away peacefully at around 1.30pm."

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HUSBAND WHO MURDERED CHILD: According to police, Mark Resch's apparent motive was revenge against his estranged wife.

http://www.democratandchronicle.com/article/201002140500/NEWS01/2140327

GREECE — A Greece man who killed his son and himself Friday was receiving counseling but had lost hope, his mother said.

Carol Gurgel said she’d urged her son, Mark P. Resch, to seek help, and he’d met with a counselor in the days before he killed his 7-year-old son Hunter and then fatally shot himself.

“I was in contact with him every day. I knew he was overwhelmed with it all,” Gurgel said. Resch had lost his job and his car at the beginning of the year, and learned recently that his wife was seeking a divorce.

“Just these last couple of days … he’d kind of given up,” Gurgel said. She said Resch, a recovering alcoholic, had been telling relatives not to bother worrying about him.

“He’s a very generous, gentle kind person,” Gurgel said. “But he did have mental issues.”

According to police, Mark Resch's apparent motive was revenge against his estranged wife.

"There was an ongoing domestic dispute, and this act was definitely a very spiteful, very aggressive act," said Greece Police Chief Todd Baxter. "This person was a mean person and was doing this pure out of spite."

According to a statement released Saturday by the Greece Central School District, Hunter T. Resch, 7, was a first-grader at Paddy Hill Elementary School on Latta Road. The district will offer counseling for students and their parents.

In a written statement, Hunter T. Resch's teacher, Cathy Carpenter, said he was a wonderful child and was well-liked.

"He loved to learn and explore and was so excited to be with his friends," she said.

Police were called to the yellow-clapboard house on Island Cottage Road about 7:30 p.m. Friday, alerted by a 911 call from Hunter T. Resch's mother asking that they check on the welfare of her son, who was staying with his father as part of a court-ordered visitation.

Baxter said the woman was alarmed by a phone conversation she'd just had with her estranged husband, who told her "you'll never make it here in time" to pick up the boy.

Baxter said the woman had left her husband on Jan. 25, the same day she secured a temporary order of protection against him in Monroe County Family Court for alleged threats against her life.

 

As part of that order, the man was prohibited from owning any guns, so police removed one shotgun from the Island Cottage Drive home at that time.

The man denied owning any others.

Baxter said police were investigating to see how the man got hold of the shotgun used in the killings.

On Monday, Baxter said, Family Court had issued a permanent restraining order against the man. The order included visitation with his son on some weekdays and alternate weekends, he said.

After the 911 call, police arrived at the home within six minutes. Through a front window, they could see a severely injured child on a couch in the living room.

In an effort to save the boy, officers immediately entered the house, where they found the man dead of a gunshot wound just inside the back door. The child was also dead.

Baxter said police found a long note, written over more than a week, that outlined the man's plan to kill his son.

He would not discuss details of the note, which he called "five or six pages of a lot of hate, anger and spite," but said it proved the act was premeditated.

"He thought about this for more than a week, with no indication to us, his wife or the courts," said Baxter. "He talked about how he was going to do it, and our investigation reveals that he pretty much carried out his plan in how he did it. That kid had no chance."

Police held debriefing and counseling sessions for involved officers and the victim's family on Saturday.

Christopher and Cheryl Irick of Island Cottage Road awoke Saturday to news of the murder-suicide. The couple said they never knew Resch or his family and that the neighborhood has always been quiet.

"That's one of the things that attracted us to here," said Christopher Irick. "And the fact that this happened across from the police station makes it even more shocking. It's such an incredibly sad story."

Calling hours for Hunter T. Resch will be from 2 to 6 p.m. on Tuesday, Feb. 16, at Vay - Schleich & Meeson Funeral Home, 1075 Long Pond Road, Greece. A service will be held at 9:30 a.m. Wednesday, Feb. 17, at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 3003 Dewey Ave.

MCDERMOT@DemocratandChronicle.com

Includes reporting by staff writers Chad Roberts, Ernst Lamothe and Gary McLendon.

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