15.3.10

Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence. Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence

 

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Domestic violence probe ends in chaos

Stuff.co.nz

By JOANNA DAVIS - The Press A man fleeing a domestic violence incident smashed his car into an ambulance where his alleged victim was being treated, ...

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FDF holds workshop on family violence

Khaleej Times

The week-long workshop which hosts experts and specialists from Jordan will discuss ways to tackle different types of domestic violence. ...

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Crime watch - March 14

TMCnet

Darnell L. Bitting, 23, of Akron, was charged March 9 with domestic violence. He is accused of threatening his ex-girlfriend after he stayed at her East ...

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Google Blogs Alert for: Domestic Violence

The Writers Lounge: Domestic Violence

By Tweety

Domestic Violence. Doors closed behind. Of happiness, peace. Marriage vows broken. Emotional, physical torture. Sordid helpless state. Tantrums thrown lose. Injured children, women. Calling for help. Vanity wins over ...

The Writers Lounge - http://weandwords.blogspot.com/

Crimestoppers Alert: Police arrest Domestic Violence suspect ...

MONTGOMERY, AL (WSFA) - Montgomery Police have arrested a woman on domestic violence charges. Authorities say Shereca Pearson assaulted her boyfriend with a knife. Investigators say Pearson stabbed the victim with the knife which hit an ...

WSFA - NEWS - http://www.wsfa.com/global/category.asp?c=1190

Obama Advocates Domestic Violence

By Frederick Meekins

Speaking to the perceived inequalities between the sexes in regards to domestic labor, President Obama said in an NBC interview that he thought men "need to be knocked across the head every once in a while."

American Conservative News Politics... - http://www.thelandofthefree.net/index.php

Mrs. Woods is suspected of domestic violence 乗Rezu ambulance ...

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[ Sports ]; Mrs. Woods is suspected of domestic violence 乗Rezu ambulance; Tiger Woods PGA (34) last 11 in a car accident near his home in late filed, the ambulance rushed, says his wife, Erin (30) suspected of domestic violence, ...

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Overcoming Battered Lives Blog - Domestic Violence, Domestic Abuse ...

By Susan Campbell

You can also read more on the Courant's ongoing domestic violence coverage. About the bloggers. Send us your feedback or share your stories with us. Contact Connecticut's statewide domestic violence hotline at 888-774-2900 for immediate ...

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Bound Body of Wife found in Fire ruins with her throat slit-her Husband has disappeared

By Gaulbert Sutherland | March 15, 2010 in Local News

http://www.stabroeknews.com/2010/stories/03/15/bound-body-of-woman-found-in-fire-ruins/

The bound body of a 57-year-old woman was early yesterday morning pulled from the charred ruins of her Sophia home. One of her children says that her throat was also slit but a police release yesterday did not confirm this.

Jacqueline George

Dead is Jacqueline George, a newspaper vendor of 120 ‘E’ Field Sophia. Her reputed husband has not been found by police. He was reportedly seen leaving the home just before the blaze. Several times before, he had threatened to kill George, relatives said.

Police said in a statement that at about 2:50 am yesterday, a fire of undetermined origin destroyed the wooden home of George, who also perished in the fire. “Initial investigations revealed that neighbours saw the building ablaze and raised an alarm which led to units from the Guyana Fire Service responding and extinguishing the fire”, the police said. George’s body was subsequently found among the debris. Police investigations continue.

George and the man lived together for over three years and fought at times, relatives said. On one occasion, George was cut and required stitches but she asked that the matter be dropped. Relatives believe she was killed because she wanted to take the man’s name off the lot’s transport and wanted to sell her stall at Stabroek Market, where she sold newspapers for over 30 years.

Shortly before 3 am yesterday, neighbours woke after hearing “crackling”. They saw George’s home on fire and called the Fire Service and George’s daughter, Sharon, who lives a few houses away. She rushed over and as fire consumed the small wooden building, she frantically called her mother’s phone but received no answer. She also called the man’s phone and was connected to his voicemail. As the building burned, residents said that someone was inside. “I seh ow God, I hope is not mi mother”, Sharon recalled. She rushed to the Stabroek Market hoping her mother was there. George was there earlier Saturday night but had left, a vendor told her.

The remains of Jacqueline George’s home at ‘E’ Field, Sophia.

Nothing was saved from the building. Sharon told this newspaper that her mother’s body was found on her bed. She said her throat was slit and her hands were tied behind her back. The house was built on small blocks and Sharon said that hours after the fire, relatives observed blood on the ground, under the spot where the bed was located.

The woman said she last saw her mother at 3 pm on Saturday when George carried her (Sharon’s) daughter to her at her workplace. She recalled that earlier that day, George had said that she was going to take a drink at the Stabroek Market because she wasn’t working that day. It was not clear when George returned home.

Neighbours, whom this newspaper spoke with, said they heard no sounds of fighting on Saturday night. One woman said that she had seen when George left the home on Saturday afternoon with her two grandchildren. She said that the reputed husband returned home early that evening. Asked if she had ever heard the couple fighting, she said that there were periodic rows. “She was a very private person. She never really used to get in any problems with nobody”, said the woman about George.

Sharon said that the couple at times fought. “The last time he burst she head and I gone to the police but she seh she ain’t want no police story”, she recalled. This occurred last year. Before then, Sharon said, her mother and the man “used to get one or two quarrel”.

The man was upset when he visited George’s son, Kenneth George on Friday. Kenneth lives some distance away in Sophia. “He come here Friday. All he seh, leh she take he name off the transport. Who name she gon put’”, he recounted.  George had also planned to sell her stall at the Stabroek Market. She sey she woulda sell the stand and keep the money foh bury she and like he din like that”, Sharon said.

Kenneth said that he learnt that his mother’s house was burning when Sharon called him. Shortly after, he received another call and was told that a body was inside the building. When he arrived, he saw that it was his mother. Her hands were tied behind her back, he said. “I know my mother had to die but not in that way”, the deeply upset man said. He said that he could not say whether her throat was slit as the body was too charred.

Relatives said that the reputed husband was unemployed and when his wife was at work, he gambled at the market. George had inherited the stall from her mother over 30 years ago. She is survived by three children.

Several women have been killed this year in similar incidents. On January 10 the bloodied body of trainee teacher, Luciana Bhagwandin, was found on a dam at Harlem, West Coast Demerara. The body had multiple stab wounds and days later the police issued a wanted bulletin for Jerry Jhagroo, a  boyfriend who drives a black car.

Sunita August, a mother of three, became the year’s first domestic related killing after she was apparently beaten to death by her husband before her body was dumped in a koker at Nismes, West Bank Demerara on January 13. Ramesh Muniram has since been charged with the murder.

Nalini Bhoje was stabbed and chopped to death in her Skeldon home on January 25. The perpetrators left a quantity of jewellery behind but took a pouch containing documents. The woman was found by her husband who had left her home alone to drop off their two daughters at a school in the area. A bloodstained cutlass and an ice pick were recovered in the house.

On March 1, Okema Todd, a 20-year-old mother of two, scaled fences and ran with blood gushing from numerous knife wounds about her body, to a security guard at Ketley Primary School, begging to be saved. Her partner was subsequently arrested and charged with her murder.

On March 4, Usawatie Persaud, 47, was found dead on a bed in an Eping Avenue apartment, next to Cuban Physiotherapist, Dr Guillermo Martinez, who was also dead. The woman’s body bore several knife wounds and police have said that in the absence of evidence to the contrary, they were treating the case as one of murder/suicide

On March 9, the body of 42-year-old Jairool ‘Chico’ Rohoman was found floating in a canal at Betsy Ground, Canje. Her hair had been shaved off and used to tie her feet. Her hands and feet were also bound together with a canvas sling, which was then strapped around her waist.

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Girls Ordered to Spend Weekends with Sex Offender Father

 

From:The Australian

March 14, 2010 10:22pm

Child hand generic

A court has ordered two girls to spend weekends with their sex offender father.

  • Judge says girls need protection at night
  • Eldest is afraid to stay overnight at father's
  • Man was convicted of child porn offences

A COURT has ordered two young girls to spend weekends with their sex offender father provided he puts a door on their bedroom they can lock.

Judge Robert Benjamin, in the Family Court's Hobart branch, ruled that the girls "need some protection from (their father), particularly at night".

However, the risk of sexual abuse was "diminished when they are awake and alert".

Judge Benjamin said that the father, who was convicted of downloading child pornography, must have an "adult friend" stay with him when the girls stayed overnight.

He added that until the youngest turned 14, the girls must "share the same room so they can have the mutual support of one another".

A Family Court counsellor said that the girls, aged ten and eight, "are at an age and maturity when awake, dressed and together it would be unlikely the father would act inappropriately toward them".

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"However, at night, when they were asleep or partly asleep and not aware of each other's whereabouts, they would be less secure."

The case has outraged women's groups, who say it puts the girls at risk to satisfy the father's desire to see them.

The eldest girl has told counsellors that she was afraid to stay overnight with her father.

The father was convicted in 2007 of three child pornography offences, including filming images of child pornography on his computer. He also created links and shortcuts to child porn sites.

In sentencing the man for the offences, a judge in Tasmania said he was "far from convinced" he posed no risk to children and put his name on the sex offenders register for five years.

His wife left him, and has since been fighting to restrict his access to their two daughters.

The Family Court found the father had invited one of the girls into his bed, and had "demonstrated affection toward her in a way that was, in all the circumstances, inappropriate for a child of that age".

The eldest girl told counsellors

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UPDATE: Maryland's House Judiciary Committee -- re-abusing victims who testify before it, prejudiced in favor of those who do wrong, biased against women, ignorant of reality, and snookering the dv activists

justice’s posterous

In an editorial published by the Washington Post, Eileen King writes: "[A] bill, sponsored by Del. Sue Hecht (D-Frederick) and Sen. Jennie Forehand (D-Montgomery), would have changed the burden of proof from "clear and convincing evidence" to "preponderance of the evidence" for final orders of protection, the same standard in place for the vast majority of other civil actions in Maryland, including tort actions for large damage awards, child abuse determinations and custody decisions. Maryland hangs on obstinately as the only state to adhere to this high standard of proof... Amy Castillo came to Annapolis to tell the members of the committee about her unsuccessful attempts to get a final protective order against Mark Castillo...

"Referring to a transcript of the final hearing on her request for an order of protection, Del.Luiz R.S. Simmons (D-Montgomery) attacked the rationale for the bill, stating that Judge Joseph A. Dugan Jr. had substantial problems with Amy Castillo's credibility. In tones that were anything but kind, Simmons declared that he wouldn't read verbatim what the judge said because he didn't want to "embarrass" Castillo. The exact nature of this "embarrassing" information -- presumably the fact that she submitted to her estranged husband's demand for sex, something not uncommon in such cases -- was left to the imagination of those present.

"In his zeal to discredit the mother of three murdered children, Simmons seemed to forget that Dugan had been tragically wrong..." http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/13/AR2010031301846.html

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Battered Mothers Custody Conference Interviews

[IMPORTANT: The following audiovisual piece includes real-life interviews featuring disturbing verbal content and statements on child abuse and domestic violence. Viewer discretion is advised.]
Prof. Garland Waller produced "Small Justice: Little Justice in America's Family Courts" which is an independent documentary that explores the relationship between domestic violence, child sexual abuse and custody laws in America. To learn more about the stories of the women seen in this 10 minute clip, please go to http://batteredmotherscustodyconferen...
Jessie Beers Altman, a graduate student in the College of Communication, was in charge of editing this video.
For more information of Boston University's Department of Film and Television at the College of Communication, visit: http://www.bu.edu/com/ft

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14.3.10

Dr. Amy Castillo, M.D. Testimony HB 700 / SB 823 Family Law - Protective Orders KILLED by the MD Legislature

Testimony in Support of HB 700 / SB 823 Family Law - Protective Orders - Burden of Proof

PDF here: testimony

Submitted by Amy Castillo, M.D.

February 25, 2010

Dear Chairman Vallario and Members of the House Judiciary Committee:

Thank you for the opportunity to testify in support of HB 700 which would lower the burden of proof from “clear and convincing” to “preponderance of the evidence” for Final Protective Orders in Maryland.

My name is Amy Castillo, and I am the pediatrician and mother whose children were drowned by their father in

March 2008. I want to thank you for letting me come testify today as to my own experience with protective

orders.

Three years ago, I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas day at the Commissioner’s Office trying to get a protective order because my husband, Mark Castillo, had told me that the worst thing he could do to me would be to kill the children, and not me, so that I would have to live without them. Also, he took Austin, who was then 3 years of age, out of his bed and out the door, and told me afterwards on the phone that he would not tell me where they were going, where they were staying, or when Austin would be back.

On January 10th, 2007, while trying to get a final Protective Order, I was telling the Judge how 6 months prior Mark had been involuntarily admitted to a psychiatric hospital for a suicide attempt and manic-like destructive behaviors, and how he still was having mental health issues and had refused to get any help. He also was living in a car at the time and not working on any kind of regular basis. He was already very angry at me because he blamed me for being placed in the psychiatric hospital and for taking his children away.

Some excerpts from the transcript:

“He told me he could make it more difficult for me after I had the children.” “He said he could sabotage the house if he wanted to.”

“He told me what could be worse is if he killed all of us, and then he said actually worse than that, if he killed the children and not me so that I would have to live without them.”

“I see him being more upset and frustrated and angry and saying, 'What does it matter anymore'. So that is why it really concerns me.”

“I called the police, I went to court, and nobody would help me with this situation.” “I’m not going to wait until they get hurt to take them away.”

My attorney asked me, “Do you feel safe in your home?” I said “no.”

My attorney asked me “Are you still residing there?’ And I said “No, I am not. The locks are broken out. The window’s broken out. The deadbolt’s been broken, and so I don’t feel safe living in the house because of the conflict we are having.”

My attorney asked if I was fearful that he may at some point harm me and the children. I answered “Yes.”

My attorney asked me, “Are you worried for the physical safety of your children?’ And I answered, “Yes.”

Mark said during the hearing, “I wanted to help myself deal with my wife, who was able to get me very angry. With these protective orders as well, I got more angry.”

The judge stated that, “There is not clear and convincing evidence that the alleged acts of abuse occurred.”

The judge also said, “I am concerned about the three children in this case, and I am concerned about the situation that they are in.”

At this time, I had been living in a hotel and at a friend’s house because I was scared to stay in my own home after filing for the Temporary Protective Order. When Mark found out about the Temporary Order filing, he was much angrier at me. I was afraid he might hurt us, or kidnap the children, and the nanny was afraid to come to the house anymore to watch the kids.

On January 10th 2007, the final Protective Order was not granted, and it left Mark twice as angry, and took

everything up a notch, and I was left unprotected. The situation now was worse. Over the next 15 months, as I

continued to fight for my husband’s mental health and for the safety of myself and the children, I did not try

again to pursue a protective order, as I found the whole process to have been a damaging experience and

useless attempt. I actually started hiding the children in other people's homes for protection so Mark could not

find them, instead of trying to seek protective orders, and then was sanctioned for not following proper

procedure.

On March 29th, 2008 Mark Castillo drowned Anthony who was 6, Austin who was 4, and Athena who was 2 years of age in a bathtub in a hotel in Baltimore.

I am not saying that this situation alone led to the death of my children. I tried many more times to get help for my family. However, I do feel that there is a great discrepancy in this state between the encouragement to come forward to fight against abuse and the ability to actually get protection. This contradiction is a discouragement for people to make the move to get out of a frightening situation, and some just stay in an unsafe environment. I would never want to see any parent, father or mother, have to go through the Hell that I have been through, and that my children went through. I am hoping that a change in the ability to get a protective order will make a difference in other children’s lives in the future.

Respectfully submitted,

Amy Castillo, M.D.

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Maryland's roadblock to helping victims of abuse

 

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/13/AR2010031301846.html

Maryland's roadblock to helping victims of abuse

By Eileen King
Silver Spring
Sunday, March 14, 2010; C05

The Maryland House Judiciary Committee has a reputation for being not only a place where good bills go to die but also where witnesses can expect little sympathy for having suffered from violent or sexual crimes. The committee's worst tendencies were in evidence once again during a Feb. 25 hearing on a bill to help keep victims of domestic abuse safe from their abusers.

The bill, sponsored by Del. Sue Hecht (D-Frederick) and Sen. Jennie Forehand (D-Montgomery), would have changed the burden of proof from "clear and convincing evidence" to "preponderance of the evidence" for final orders of protection, the same standard in place for the vast majority of other civil actions in Maryland, including tort actions for large damage awards, child abuse determinations and custody decisions. Maryland hangs on obstinately as the only state to adhere to this high standard of proof.

Predictably, the bill was killed by the committee.

Our witness was Amy Castillo, a Montgomery pediatrician who did everything she could to protect her three children, including getting a temporary protective order on Christmas 2006 after her husband, Mark, told her that "the worst thing he could do to me would be to kill the children and not me." On March 29, 2008, Mark Castillo followed through on this threat, drowning Anthony Castillo, 6, Austin, 4, and Athena, 2, in a hotel bathtub.

Amy Castillo came to Annapolis to tell the members of the committee about her unsuccessful attempts to get a final protective order against Mark Castillo. She told them about his behaviors, threats, mental health problems and refusal to get the help he needed, and about her grave fears for her and her children's safety.

This testimony was met with something worse than indifference. Referring to a transcript of the final hearing on her request for an order of protection, Del. Luiz R.S. Simmons (D-Montgomery) attacked the rationale for the bill, stating that Judge Joseph A. Dugan Jr. had substantial problems with Amy Castillo's credibility. In tones that were anything but kind, Simmons declared that he wouldn't read verbatim what the judge said because he didn't want to "embarrass" Castillo. The exact nature of this "embarrassing" information -- presumably the fact that she submitted to her estranged husband's demand for sex, something not uncommon in such cases -- was left to the imagination of those present.

In his zeal to discredit the mother of three murdered children, Simmons seemed to forget that Dugan had been tragically wrong when he disregarded Amy Castillo's fears for her children's safety and bought the arguments made by Mark Castillo and his lawyer. Simmons's flawed logic: The judge found reason to question Amy Castillo's credibility, so it was her fault that she didn't get the protective order. Simmons expressed doubt that Castillo could have met even the preponderance standard, suggesting that changing the legal threshold wouldn't have helped save her children. And this is why other at-risk or abused children should be denied protective orders?

Amy Castillo's case illustrates a point made by Joan S. Meier of the Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment and Appeals Project at George Washington University Law School: "The higher the burden, the more the risk of error is placed on the alleged victim or protective parent. The burden is a direct reflection of whether you believe the majority of petitioners are lying, or not. If you don't, this burden is inappropriate because it privileges abusers over victims."

Feeling they have nowhere to turn, parents are condemned to wait helplessly for the next violent or abusive act. Try this thought experiment: Imagine that your child has met the preponderance standard for abuse but a judge says that is not enough for a protective order to keep the child from the abuser. Imagine what it would be like to live knowing that you or your children are at lethal risk but that you can get help only if you or the children are hurt badly enough.

This is not the first time that a House Judiciary Committee witness was treated in a manner that many observers found offensive. It is also not the first time the committee killed a bill that would have increased protection for victims of family violence and abused or at-risk children. From the questions they ask, the anti-victim positions they take and the bills they kill, it appears obvious that the committee's most outspoken members are aligned with the defense bar.

It is high time for some review and oversight of this committee, its leadership and composition and its commitment to the public welfare of Maryland's most vulnerable citizens: victims of crime and our children.

Eileen King is regional director of Justice for Children's Washington office.

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