24.2.10

Kansas Child Welfare Summit Feb. 23, 24 & March 1 & 2

Note: Cross posted from [angelfury@live.com Blog.com] Mothers Global Justice Alliance.

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Child welfare summit scheduled

http://www.khi.org/news/2010/feb/08/child-welfare-summit-works/

National experts expected to testify to House committee

The hearings are scheduled at 1:30 p.m. on Feb. 24 and 25 and on March 1 and 2 in the Statehouse, Room 346-S.

By Dave Ranney

KHI News Service Feb. 8, 2010

TOPEKA — The chairman of the House Federal and State Affairs Committee is planning a four-days of hearings on child welfare issues.

“I’m trying to bring in some national experts to talk about best practices on foster care, adoption, family preservation and some other issues,” said Rep. Melvin Neufeld, R-Ingalls.

“We’ll spend a day with the courts – the judges – to see if there are any changes that can be made in the law to make things work better,” Neufeld said.

The hearings are scheduled at 1:30 p.m. on Feb. 24 and 25 and on March 1 and 2 in the Statehouse, Room 346-S.

Bills in play

The hearings coincide with legislators considering at least five foster care reform bills:

HB 2461 would block the state from renewing its foster care, adoption and family preservation contracts with private contractors.

HB 2494 would prohibit judges from putting a child in foster care solely because his or her parent(s) are homeless.

HB 2511 would allow SRS to pay grandparents to care for grandchildren who’ve been removed from their parents’ custody. Payment would be commensurate with what foster parents are paid.

HB 2512 would order the courts to review Kansas Department of Social and Rehabilitation Services placement decisions affecting children in foster care. Without the court’s approval a child would not be moved.

HB 2513 would direct law enforcement to hold a runaway child in a secure facility until a court decides if the child should be in foster care.

Privatization

Kansas privatized most of its child-welfare responsibilities in 1996. Today, SRS investigates reports of child abuse and neglect and monitors a child’s progress within the system. Direct services are provided by regional contractors.

Several legislators – conservative Republicans, mostly – have been critical of privatization, accusing SRS and the contractors of abusing the rights of parents and grandparents.

In December, Rep. Mike Kiegerl, R-Olathe, accused the contractors of wielding “Gestapo-like powers” in their dealings with parents accused of mistreating their children.

Kiegerl is vice chair of the House Federal and State Affairs Committee.

Neufeld, a former speaker of the House and a key figure in the decision to privatize, said the hearings would focus on child welfare issues rather than specific legislation.

“What we’re looking for, really, is how do we make things better,” he said. “That’s really what this is about.”

SRS and the contractors have cited data showing that while there are exceptions, most children in foster care receive more services, remain closer to home and spend less time in the system than before privatization.

Neufeld said he’s sure there are shortfalls within the system.

“Any program that’s as diverse as this, there are going to be things that don’t happen right,” he said. “But the question to me is: How do we make the system work better and do a better job protecting children in state custody.”

Neufeld is vice president of the National Conference of State Legislatures.

http://www.kslegislature.org/bills/2010/2461.pdf

http://www.kslegislature.org/bills/2010/2511.pdf

http://www.kslegislature.org/bills/2010/2512.pdf

http://www.kslegislature.org/bills/2010/2513.pdf

http://www.kslegislature.org/bills/2010/2494.pdf

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23.2.10

THE REAL COST OF APPOINTEES IN FAMILY COURT By Nancy S. Erickson, J.D., LL.M., M.A. (Forensic Psychology)

nancyserickson@earthlink.net

Battered Mothers Custody Conference, Jan. 2010

http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/seminar_materials.htm

SELECTED BIBLIOGRAPHY:

THE REAL COST OF APPOINTEES IN FAMILY COURT

By Nancy S. Erickson, J.D., LL.M., M.A. (Forensic Psychology)

By appointing these “professionals” in custody cases, the judge is removing from the court certain costs and responsibilities and placing the costs on other governmental institutions or on the parent(s) and the responsibilities on attorneys or MHPs.

Attorney for the parent: Usually a parent retains an attorney on her own, but in some states (e.g., NY) the court may appoint counsel to indigent parents in custody and DV cases.

Attorney for the child: sometimes called law guardian or counsel for the child.

Guardian ad Litem (GAL): Child’s adult representative for the litigation. Does not need to be an attorney, but often is. The role of the GAL is often poorly defined.

Custody evaluator: sometimes called “expert” or “forensic expert.” Usually a psychologist, psychiatrist, social worker, mental health counselor, or other mental health practitioner (MHP). The court may or may not define the evaluator’s role.

Visitation Supervisor: An individual who supervises visitation (or visitation exchanges) with a parent who may pose a danger to a child or the other parent.

Therapeutic visitation superviser: Typically a MHP; role may be to reintroduce to a child, in a safe place, a parent who has abused or abandoned a child, or to guide a parent in how to visit without psychologically harming the child, etc.

Therapist: For child or a parent.

Parenting coordinator: Individual, usually a MHP or an attorney, who acts somewhat in the role of a judge to handle what the court considers minor disputes regarding parenting. This individual may be assigned while the case is going on or after the case is completed (for problems that arise later).

GENERAL: VARIOUS APPOINTEES

Dore, Margaret (2006). Court-Appointed Parenting Evaluators and Guardians ad Litem: Practical Realities and an Argument for Abolition, Divorce Litigation, 18(4), 53-60.

Copyright c 2010 Nancy S. Erickson. All Rights Reserved.

Neustein, Amy, & Lesher, Michael(2005). From madness to mutiny: Why mothers are running from the family courts – and what can be done about it. Boston: Northeastern University Press. Chapters 5 & 7 deal with custody evaluators; chapter 11 deals with counsel for children.

CUSTODY EVALUATORS

A. Guidelines and Rules

Guidelines and Rules Set by National Organizations

American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. (1997). Practice parameters for child custody evaluation. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 36, 57S-68S (10 Supplement). Washington, D.C.: Author. [currently being revised].

American Psychological Association. (2002). Ethical principles of psychologists and code of conduct. www.apa.org.

American Psychological Association. (1994). Guidelines for child custody evaluations in divorce proceedings. American Psychologist, 49, 677-680. [in effect 1994-2008].

American Psychological Association. (2009). Guidelines for child custody evaluations in family law proceedings. http://www.apa.org/practice/guidelines-evaluation-child-custody-family-law.pdf.

American Psychological Association ad hoc Committee on Legal and Ethical issues in the Treatment of Interpersonal Violence (1997). Professional, ethical, and legal issues concerning interpersonal violence, maltreatment, and related trauma. Washington, D.C.: Author.

American Psychological Association Committee on Ethical

Guidelines for Forensic Psychologists. (1991). Specialty guidelines for forensic psychologists. Law and Human Behavior, 15, 655-665. [currently being revised].

Most States Also Have Rules/Guidelines – Examples:

California Rules of Court, Title 5, Special Rules for Trial

Courts, Rules 5.220 (court-ordered child custody evaluations), 5.225 (training for evaluators), 5.230 (domestic violence training for evaluators). [currently being revised].

New York State Board for Psychology. (1997). Guidelines for child custody evaluations. Albany, NY: Author. http://www.op.nysed.gov/prof/psych/psychcustodyguide.htm

B. Child Custody Evaluations: General

American Psychiatric Association. (2000). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (4th ed, text rev.). Washington, D.C.: Author. [currently being revised]

Benjamin, G. A., & Gollan, J.K. (2003). Family evaluation in custody litigation: Reducing risks of ethical infractions and malpractice. Washington, D.C.: American Psychological Association.

Bow, J., Flens, J., Gould, J., & Greenhut, D. (2005b). An analysis of administration, scoring, and

interpretation of the MMPI-2 and MCMI-II/III in child custody evaluations. Journal of Child Custody 2(4), 1-22.

Bow, J., & Quinnell, F. A. (2001). Psychologists’current practices and procedures in child

custody evaluations: Five years after American Psychological Association guidelines. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 32, 261–268 (average cost of custody evaluation: $3,335).

Bowermaster, J. (2002). Legal Presumptions and the Role of Mental Health Professionals in Child Custody Proceedings. Duquesne University Law Review 40, 265-311.

Brodzinsky, D. (1993). On the use and misuse of psychological testing in child custody evaluations. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 24, 213-219.

Dallam, S.J. & Silberg, J.L. (2006). Myths that place children at risk during custody disputes. Sexual Assault Report, 9(3), 33-34 & 42-47.

Dore, Margaret (2006). See above.

Emery, R., Otto, R., & O’Donohue, W. (2005). A critical assessment of child custody evaluations: Limited science and a flawed system. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 6, 1-29.

Greenberg, S.A. & Shuman, D.W. (1997). Irreconcilable conflict between therapeutic and forensic roles. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 28, 50-57.

Horvath, L., Logan, T., & Walker, R. (2002). Child Custody Cases: A content analysis of evaluations in practice. Professional psychology: Research and practice, 33, 557-565. Concluded that “evaluators frequently neglected assessment of domestic violence and child abuse….”

Kates, E. J. (2007). Reevaluating the Evaluators: Rethinking the Assumptions of Therapeutic Jurisprudence in the Family Courts, National Network on Family Law Policy research draft published at The Liz Library liznotes, http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/custody-evaluator-questions.html, accessed September 18, 2009. A MUST READ!

Krause, D. & Sales, B. (2000). Legal standards, expertise, and experts in the resolution of contested child custody cases. Psychology, Public Policy, and Law, 6, 843-879.

Martindale, D.A. (2001). Cross-examining mental health experts in child custody litigation. Journal of Psychiatry & Law, 29, 483-511.

Matrimonial Commission Report to the Chief Judge of the State of New York (February, 2006). [Child Custody Evaluators are discussed at pages 46-53 of the main volume, and the California rules governing child custody evaluators are reproduced at App. I.]

Melton, G., Petrila, J., Poythress, N., & Slobogin, C. (2d Ed. 2007. Psychological evaluations for the courts: A handbook for mental health professionals and lawyers.(3d ed.). New York: Guilford Press. A well-respected textbook/reference book that is highly critical of the way custody evaluations currently are being done.

Neustein, A., & Lesher, M.(2005). See above.

Otto, R.K., Edens, J.F., & Barcus, E.H. (2000). The use of psychological testing in child custody evaluations. Family and Conciliation Courts Review, 38, 312-340.

Schafran, L.H. (2003) Evaluating the evaluators: Problems with outside neutrals. The Judge’s Journal, 42, 10-15 & 38.

Tippins, T. & Wittman, J.P.(2005). Empirical and ethical problems with custody recommendations: A call for clinical humility and judicial vigilance. Family Court Review, 43, 193-222.

C. Child Custody Evaluations; Domestic Violence and Parental Alienation (invented by Richard Gardner, deceased) and often used in DV or child sex abuse cases against mothers)

Bancroft, L. & Silverman, J. (2002). The batterer as parent. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage.

Dalton, C., Drozd, L., & Wong, F. (2004, rev’d 2006). Navigating custody and visitation evaluations in cases with domestic violence: A judge’s guide. Reno, NV: Nat’l Council of

Juvenile & Family Court Judges. Available at www.ncjfcj.org/images/stories/dept/fvd/pdf/navigating_cust.pdf. A MUST READ!

Erickson, N.S.(2005). Use of the MMPI-2 in custody evaluations involving domestic violence. Family Law Quarterly, 39, 87-108. In this article, I cite the studies that show that, based on the MMPI, custody evaluators may misdiagnose battered women.

Erickson, N.S. & Zorza, J. (2005). Evaluating the Handling of Domestic Violence Cases by Custody Evaluators. Domestic Violence Report, 10(4), 49-50 & 62-63.

Geffner, R., Geis, K., & Aranda, B. (2006). Family violence allegations in child custody evaluations: The overlap of family and forensic psychology. The Family Psychologist, 22 (Spring), 9-14.

Kelly, R. & Ramsey, S. (2009). Child custody evaluations: The need for systems-level outcome assessments. Family Court Review, 47 (2), 286-303. Authors urge studies of whether custody evaluations lead to best results for children.

The Leadership Council is the best source for critiques of “Parental Alienation” theory. www.leadershipcouncil.org.

D. Psychological Effects of Abuse on the Victim and on Children

American Bar Association. (1994). The impact of domestic violence on children. Chicago, IL: Author.

American Psychological Association (1996). Violence and the family: Report of the American Psychological Association presidential task force on violence and the family. Washington,D.C.: APA. VERY IMPORTANT (get from APA)

Bancroft & Silverman, above.

Dutton, M.A. (1992). Assessment and treatment of PTSD among battered women. In D. Foy (Ed.), Treating PTSD: Procedures for combat veterans, battered women, adult and child sexual assaults. New York: Guilford Press.

Herman, J.L. (1992). Trauma and recovery. New York: Basic Books.

Herman, J.L. (1992). Complex PTSD: A syndrome in survivors of prolonged and repeated trauma. Journal of traumatic stress, 5, 377-391.

Holden, G., Geffner, R., & Jouriles, E. (eds.). (1998). Children exposed to marital violence: Theory, research, and applied issues. Washington, D.C.: APA

Morrell, J. & Rubin, L. (2001). The Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory-2, posttraumatic stress disorder, and women domestic violence survivors. Professional Psychology: Research & Practice, 32, 151-156.

E Some Tools that Could be Used by CCEs (but usually are not) to Assess For Domestic Violence

American Bar Association Commission on Domestic Violence. (2005). Tool for attorneys to screen for domestic violence. Available at www.abanet.org/domviol/screeningtoolcdv.pdf.

Campbell, J.C. (1995). Assessing the risk of dangerousness: Potential for further violence of sexual offenders, batterers, and child abusers. Newbury Park, CA: Sage. [the “DA” (Danger Assessment)Also see other works by Campbell].

Geffner, R., Geis, K., & Aranda, B. (2006). See above.

[discusses how to do a thorough assessment for DV, including the “Spouse Abuse Identification Questionnaire” that Geffner and Pagelow devised].

Hare, R.D. (2003). The Hare Psychopathy Checklist—Revised (2nd

Ed.) Toronto, ON,Canada: Multi-Health Systems (manual for the PCL-R, which is used to assess whether an individual is a psychopath, a/k/a sociopath).

Kropp, P.R., Hart, S.D., Wester, C.D. & Eaves, D. (1999).

Spousal assault risk assessment guide. Toronto, Ontario, Canada: Multi-Health Systems and B.C. Institute against Family Violence. [The “SARA”].

William, K. & Houghton, A. (2004). Assessing the risk of domestic violence reoffending: A validation study. Law and Human Behavior, 28 (4) 411-35[A study of the reliability and validity of the Domestic Violence Screening Instrument (DVSI) Colorado, 1998].

F New York Cases Involving DV and Custody Evaluations

Wissink v. Wissink, 749 N.Y.S.2d 550 (2d Dept. 2002). (Appeals

court reversed trial court decision awarding custody to the abuser and remanded for a comprehensive psychological evaluation). Discussed in Reichler, J. & Erickson, N. (2003). Custody, domestic violence,and a child's preference. New York Law Journal, April 24, 2003, p. 1 & 6.

LAWYERS FOR CHILDREN

Dore, Margaret (2006), above, under “General.”

DuCote, Richard (2002). Guardians ad litem in private custody litigation: The case for abolition.

Loyola Journal of Public Interest Law, 3, 106-151.

Neustein, Amy, & Lesher, Michael(2005), above, under “General."

SO-CALLED “PARENT COORDINATORS”

Special Issue of the Journal of Child Custody (2008), Vol. 5 (1/2). One article in this symposium describes PCs as having a “new, hybrid legal/psychological role … distinct in its elements from traditional roles in the family court… and therapeutic roles ….[The PC]provides a unique combination of legal authority, specialized knowledge and availability to high conflict families.” Sullivan, J. (2008). Coparenting and the parenting coordination process. Journal of Child Custody, 5(1/2), 4-24, at 5-6. [Does “high conflict” equal/include DV?]

SUPERVISED VISITATION PERSONNEL

Can be invaluable if the parent being supervised is a danger to the children, such as an abuser. However, many protective parents who are found “guilty” of so-called parental alienation are ordered to visit only under supervision, which is a misuse of supervised visitation personnel.

COURT-ORDERED THERAPY: Parent as Prisoner?

Query: If a court orders a parent to go to therapy and orders the therapist to report back to the court, what happened to therapist-patient confidentiality?

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HOW BATTERERS MANIPULATE AND CUSTODY SYSTEMS COLLUDE.

http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/seminar_materials.htm

Erickson, Nancy S., J.D., LL.M., M.A. (Forensic Psychology),  SELECTED BIBLIOGRAPHY:  THE REAL COST OF APPOINTEES IN FAMILY COURT, Presentation at the Seventh Annual Battered Mother's Custody Conference, January, 2010, Albany, NY.

Huffer, Karin, M.S., M.F.T., Marriage Family Therapist, ADA Accommodations Designer/Advocate,USING THE NEW ADA IN CUSTODY CASES INVOLVING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, PowerPoint presentation,Seventh Annual Battered Mother's Custody Conference, January, 2010, Albany, NY.

Zorza, Joan, Esq. and Brigner, Mike, Esq.  HOW BATTERERS MANIPULATE AND CUSTODY SYSTEMS COLLUDE.  PowerPoint presentation, Seventh Annual Battered Mother's Custody Conference, Albany, NY, 9 January 2010.

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NYC Man Fatally Shoots Wife, Two Daughters, Then Himself

By News One February 22, 2010 4:10 pm

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From the NY Post:

A man shot his wife and two daughters and then turned the gun on himself in Queens this morning in an apparent murder-suicide — even leaving a note behind saying he was “sorry” for commiting the gruesome crime, police sources said.

Cops discovered the four bodies at 145-20 230th Place in Springfield Gardens after the father, Mark Bailey, a bus driver in Nassau County, shot his family in their bedrooms, police said.

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Bailey was found in chair in the main room. All four had gunshot wounds to the head with a 9mm pistol.

A note was also found in the kitchen, where Baily wrote, “I am sorry. Love, Mark,” according to police sources.

His wife, Dionne, 42, was an assistant principal at Philip Randolph High School.

One daughter, 19-year-old Yonique, was a student at Stony Brook University and the other, 14-year-old Yolon, was a student at Cardozo High School.

The family moved to this country from Jamaica nearly 20 years ago.

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21.2.10

Abuse Freedom Live Show UPDATE (Forward TO All)

 

Please forward to all family fighter’s of family preservation! We have a special announcement for next week’s show. And some announcements regarding new Abuse Freedom United Corp. policies to announce! Very Very Important show this is the show you have been waiting for….

ABUSE FREEDOM UNITED

Presents the Abuse Freedom Live Show!

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February 21, 2010 from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Eastern Time Zone

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Retired Senator Nancy Schaeffer

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And special Mystery Guest along with Special Guest
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CANADIAN MOM NEEDS OUR HELP: PLEASE SIGN PETITION

Note: Cross posted from @@wpAngelzfury.

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From: Rights for Mothers

 

PLEASE SIGN PETITION

FILED IN: ACTIVISM, ALBERTA, BAD JUDGES, CANADA, CHILD CUSTODY BATTLE, CHILD CUSTODY FOR FATHERS, CHILDREN AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, CORRUPT JUDGES, CORRUPT BASTARDS, COURT WATCH,DOMESTIC ABUSE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, FAMILY COURT, FATHERS RIGHTS, GETTING SCREWED BY THE FAMILY COURTS, JAILING CHILDREN, JAILING MOTHERS, JUSTICE DARLENE ACTON, LEGAL ABUSE,NONCUSTODIAL MOTHERS, RONDI ANDERSON, SPEAK OUT

I am horrified to learn Rondi Anderson is facing jail time if her son Casey doesn’t return to abusive father.   Casey could be sent to jail also.   ApparentlyJustice Darlene Acton of Alberta is the person at fault and responsible for giving the children to this abuser.  Read what Casey’s father, who was awarded sole custody of the children, did to him:

Recently Casey was brought to his mother’s residence when the police arrived after an assault on Casey by his father who had punched Casey in the face, kicked him in the head, and beaten him relentlessly. Once with his mother, Casey told her that this abuse was ongoing. He told Rondi that for years the boys had been told by their father and other relatives that she was an unfit mother. Casey reported his younger brother, his dad’s new wife, and her five-year old daughter, were all victims of abuse by his father as well.

Casey told his mother that he had been drinking heavily and taking drugs since he was twelve years old. He also reported that he had been suspended from school twelve times in junior high for drug use, counterfeiting, and other behavioral issues. When Casey was returned to his mother, he had not been taken to the dentist since she had last taken him and his brother in May 2004.  In 2002, Judge Acton had (upon the father’s request) ordered that Rondi not be allowed to take the children to any doctor nor have access to school or school records.

Since Casey has been living with his mother, he has been attending school regularly and is currently on the honor roll. While maintaining his grades, Casey also holds down a part-time job at a nearby restaurant. Casey says that he now feels safe, happy, and loved. Yet, when Casey filed a motion asking the judge that he no longer be forced to live with his father, and asking that he be allowed to reside with his mother, the judge denied the motion and ordered that Casey be immediately returned to his father. Upon hearing of the judge’s ruling, Casey contacted Social Services, who admitted that while they have enough proof that Casey’s father is abusive, they cannot go against the judge. Child Protective Services has currently turned the case over to a supervisor.

If you are friends with Rondi, you need to pack that courtroom and make that judge follow the law.  This is the only thing that turned Claudine Dombrowski’s case around recently to have access to her child again.  Take notes, make them know they are being watched and monitored.

My love goes out to you, Rondi and Casey.

Please take time now to sign the petition.  The hearing is this coming Tuesday, February 23rd.

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/16-yr-olds-request-deniedmom-may-be-jailed

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Fathers have rights too...we never thought this could happen," Father kills son out of ‘spite’ to wife.

 

The name of the killer was Mark Resch. This article said he killed the son out of "spite" and that "fathers have rights too" - like, to kill your offpring?! - and that the protection order did not include visitation rights.

 

http://www.13wham.com/news/local/story/Murder-Suicide-Family-Members-Never-Saw-it-Coming/LtYrh8N6RkuPwFz3_FIIoA.cspx?rss=102

Murder-Suicide: Family Members Never Saw it Coming

Reported by: Patrice Walsh

Email: pwalsh@13wham.com

Last Update: 2/16 10:04 am

Counselors for Greece Parents. Family of accused shooter shocked.

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    Counselors on Hand After Death of 1st Grader; Foundation Forming

      Greece, N.Y. -- Mark Resch had seen a counselor last week for problems related to the loss of his job, break-up of his marriage, and struggles with alcoholism.  But Resch's sister Carla Vick says, "It was too late."

      The family knew Mark was struggling, but Vick said they didn't know how deeply he was hurting or that he had planned violence against his only son, Hunter.

      Greece Police say Resch left a note detailing his plan to kill his son. They found it in his house on Island Cottage Road after discovering the bodies of father and son.  Both had been shot to death.

      Police say in the note Resch blamed his wife Susan and marital problems and indicated he was killing Hunter out of "spite."

      This leaves Resch's family members stunned.  They say there were no indications Mark would or could hurt Hunter.  They say he was the "light" of his father's life.

      Carla Vick said, "The message is: this isn't the answer, there is always help. There is always help."

      Grief counselors are helping families of Hunter's classmates at Paddy Hill School in Greece with ways to explain this violent death to their children.  Hunter's aunt, Carla Vick said he had an angelic face and smile.

      The family and friends are grieving for Hunter and Mark.  Police, meanwhile, are trying to determine where Resch got the gun used in the killings.

      He was forced to surrender what he said was his only shotgun last month, after a court issued an Order of Protection preventing Resch from contacting his wife Susan.

      The order did not affect Resch's visitation rights with his son.

      "It's a fine line. Fathers have rights too...we never thought this could happen," said Vick.

      Services for Hunter and Mark Resch will be held separately this week.  Hunter's Cub Scout Pack 14 in Greece is also starting a foundation to remember the young scout.

      ***

      Hunter's family will be forming a foundation in his name. Hunter’s family requests donations be sent to:

      Susan S. Resch

      149 Everwild Lane

      Rochester, NY 14606

      Or

      Cub Scout Pack 14

      Pack Committee Co-Chairman

      Josh Hernendez

      101 Red Oak Drive

      Rochester, N.Y. 14616

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