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Karly Singer Presentation (Adult Child Survivor of Court Ordered Child Abuse) at Battered Mothers Custody Conference Albany NY 2009

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The Sixth Annual Battered Mother's Custody Conference: "Solutions"

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The Sixth Annual Battered Mothers Custody Conference:

The Sixth Annual Battered Mother's Custody Conference: "Solutions"

Friday January 9th - Sunday 11th, 2009 Articles about the 2009 conference by professional journalists who were there:

Commentary womensforum.com By Garland WallerJanuary 13, 2009

The start of the New Year always fills me with hope, with plans for change, with determination. But for me, there is also an annual event that overshadows the hoopla and superficial goals. For me, the New Year heralds the Battered Mothers Custody Conference ... full article

This is Really Hard to Believe Opinion By Barry Nolan Thursday, 15 January 2009 09:14This is really hard to believe. I am sitting in a room filled with women who were beaten, and violated in terrible ways. The room is not in Bosnia, or some far flung third-world hell-hole. I am in a function room in a hotel in Albany at the Battered Mothers Custody Conference. ... full article

Presenters Schedule

BMCC VI Announcement and General InformationBrochure and Mail-In RegistrationOnline Registration 2009 Co-SponsorsSilent AuctionSupport the ConferenceAbout the Conference

Organizations and Support Resources

Legal Resources: Articles, Research,
Briefs, Case Law

Contribute a Panel to the "Children Taken By The Family Courts" Community Quilt

The Conference in PBS' 2005 Documentary

Film: Breaking the Silence, Children's StoriesFilm: Family Court Crisis

Testimonies filmed by Garland Waller at the 2008 conference

MORE DETAILS

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Just to Hurt Mum...

Note: Cross posted from [blogger angelzfury] Battered Women, Battered Children, Custody Abuse.

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Just to Hurt Mum...

A father who received shared parenting of the children:
1. Left a 14yo and 9yo alone in the home to see his girlfriend regularly.
2. Threatened to deprive them of their mother, if they told.
3. Took all of the furniture out of the house, leaving them with a few clothes and blankets.
4. Is relying on depression as an excuse of his negligence.
In the article, it states:
"Duty solicitor Mark Dollimore said the man was suffering depression, had not felt able to look after his children, and wanted to co-operate as much as he could."
Then why did he go to the Family Court and battle it out for Shared Parenting?
Just to hurt mum
Why would he leave them in such poor conditions?
Just to hurt mum
If he could not have cared for them, why didn't he just phone the mother?
Oh.. that's right, he is busy hurting the mother.
Fact is that the Family Court has been and is continually used as a weapon against mothers resulting in the harm of children. 
The people who made the shared parenting laws are bitter angry fathers who wanted the legal power to hurt not only their ex wives, but all mothers through the children.  They see them as nothing more than a commodity or a tool to use and spout their hatred for all women. 
Through the same charm and wit they used to lure these women into destructive environments, they used to promote this bill. 
Hence every mother who goes through this system, is forced to endure the suffering this shared parenting mob inflicted. 
The question is not how much suffering every mother can endure knowing that her children are at risk or are being abused and neglected.  The question is now, what is the government going to do about it?  How long do they have to endure this genocide?  How many idiots are they going to listen to before we are heard?
No matter how much you try to bury the truth rather than act, it will not only shine through but be sure there will be justice.

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GRASSROOTS DO YOU FEEL ALONE AND WITHOUT SUPPORT?

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Mothers Global Justice Alliance.

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GRASSROOTS

http://mamaliberty.wordpress.com/2009/09/02/grassroots/#

 

September 2, 2009 in Child Custody Issues, Child Custody for fathers, Children's Rights,Family Courts, activism, child abuse, domestic violence | Tags: abused children, abusers,abusive men, corruption, court whores, CPS, custody, cyber stalking, domestic abuse,domestic violence, family court, family court corruption, government corruption, maternal deprivation, misogynists, protective mothers alliance, protective parent, restraining orders, stalkers, violence against women, women haters

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Mothers Support Group

NEED SOME HELP HANGING IN THERE?

DO YOU FEEL ALONE AND WITHOUT SUPPORT?

Would you like to connect with MOMS who have been there, or are there?

Then come join us…we want to meet you!

All meetings are located at a

Predetermined undisclosed location.

For more information, call Protective Mothers Alliance at,

941-822-5592

Or email lb.jlpma@gmail.com

Agenda Summary

PMA, an international organization co-directed & co-founded by Lundy Bancroft and Janice Levinson, is forming a support group for mothers going through custody litigation.  Experienced, caring mothers, who listen and do not judge.  Sharing information and ideas about issues mother’s face.  Help locating support for you and your child(ren).

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Mother, daughter among 3 dead after all-night standoff in Galveston (he loved her to death)

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Whos Killing Families?.

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http://www.khou.com/news/local/galveston/stories/khou090901_tnt_galveston-standoff.1391e41c4.html

Mother, daughter among 3 dead after all-night standoff in Galveston

07:08 PM CDT on Tuesday, September 1, 2009

By Kevin Reece / 11 News

GALVESTON, Texas – An apparent domestic dispute that prompted an all-night police standoff in Galveston ended in tragedy with a mother, her boyfriend and her adult daughter dead Tuesday.

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Mother, daughter among 3 dead after all-night standoff

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Police said the deaths appear to be the result of a double murder-suicide.

It all started at a home at 38th Street and Avenue M. around 10 p.m. Monday.

Police responded to reports of gunfire.  They found Joyce Randle dead in her front yard. They thought they heard movement inside the house and began trying to negotiate with the gunman whom they believed was still inside.

Eight hours later officers shot tear gas through the windows of the house and forced their way inside.  They found Randle’s daughter Jacqueline, 21, shot dead in a back room and Joyce Randle’s live-in boyfriend identified as John Henry Newton dead of an apparently self-inflicted gunshot.

“That was my baby. I can't get my child back,” said Joel Randle who identified himself as Jacqueline’s father and Joyce Randle’s ex-husband. “That's my baby. I have to bury my child.”

Jennifer Reynolds / The Daily News

District Attorney Kurt Sistrunk talks with officers on scene of a deadly standoff in the 3800 block of Avenue M Tuesday.

Jackie Randle was employed as a food service worker at UTMB.  Friends say Joyce Randle worked at the Galveston Home Depot.

"I was truly devastated,” said Joyce Randle’s friend Judith Tillmon.  “I just can't understand why someone would do this to a person like Joyce...is such a wonderful person.”

Neighbors and family tell 11 News that  Joyce Randle and her live-in boyfriend of two years were having trouble.  Although there had been talk of marriage their relationship was reportedly coming to an end with Newton planning to move back to his native Texarkana by November.

A handyman doing odd cleanup jobs after Hurricane Ike, his pickup truck with the name of his company "Helping Hands" written on the side, was still parked in Randle’s driveway.

Police believe all three died at his hands last night.  What investigators, neighbors, friends, and family do not know is why.

“He never said anything about hurting anybody because he always said he didn't want to hurt her, emotionally, you know,” said Newton’s friend and co-worker Anthony Dearmon. “So this is a surprise. Man he cared about the girl.  I think it's bizarre. Because they was honey and baby and sugar last week."

"I just wish it wasn't a tragedy like it was,” said neighbor Rodney Hudson fighting back tears.

“Everybody's happy around here. Peaceful neighborhood.

Sad day in Galveston. Sad day right now."

Late Tuesday night neighbors and friends began lining the chain link fence around the house with flowers and stuffed animals. A candlelight vigil was planned late Tuesday night at Shiloh AME Church.

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Whos Killing Families?.

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Crime Stats: Increase in Domestic Violence & Rape; Down in Larceny, Armed robberies; burglaries and motor vehicle theft.

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] Battered Mothers Rights - A Human Rights Issue.

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http://www.hattiesburgamerican.com/article/20090901/NEWS01/909010318/1002

 

Lamar sees increase in domestic violence

Crime stats show rape also up, larceny down

TIM DOHERTY • AMERICAN STAFF WRITER TDOHERTY@HATTIESBURGAMERICAN.COM • SEPTEMBER 1, 2009

Often, it starts behind closed doors, with law enforcement officers arriving only after the fact.

Domestic assaults can not only be hard to predict, let alone avert, a confounding conundrum for those sworn to serve and protect.

"Domestic disturbances, we can't really prevent those," Lamar County Sheriff Danny Rigel said. "We've seen an increase in domestic violence, and I don't know what you attribute that to. Can you blame it on the economy? I really don't know, and I wish I had an answer to that. There just seems to be a lot more short-tempered people out there."

Domestic arguments that turned violent have fueled a 16 percent rise in reported assaults in the county over the first seven months of 2009 when compared with the same period the previous year.

In 2008, deputies logged 240 assaults from January through July. This year, 278 assaults were reported during the same time period.

"From what we've seen, the majority, they are domestic," Rigel said. "It's not necessarily a lot of stranger-to-stranger."

Forcible rapes also rose in 2009, going from 17 in 2008 to 22 in 2009, a 30 percent jump. In many cases, those crimes shared a common thread with the assaults.

"It's situations where they knew the person, were at least acquainted with them," Rigel said.

Becky Sims, executive director of Family Abuse Family Shelter Inc., said the best thing that law enforcement can do to curtail domestic violence is make arrests.

"Make the abuser accountable," said Sims, whose organization serves 11 Pine Belt counties. "An arrest is humiliating. You get your name in the paper. You can lose your job, and that's real scary right now.

"If you make it worthwhile enough to the batterer, they can change their behavior."

When law enforcement can apply proactive measures, the results can be dramatic.

Larcenies, grand and petty, in Lamar County were down 62.2 percent during the first seven months of the year. For the same period in 2008, 241 larcenies were reported. This year, 91 larcenies were reported.

"To a certain extent, with thefts, you can do something to prevent those by saturating the areas where they are occurring," Rigel said. "We've tried to do that, and we've had some success with that."

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FIGHT OR FLIGHT? By MamaLiberty

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] I will not SHUT UP , GIVE UP and I WONT go away!!.

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FIGHT OR FLIGHT?

August 31, 2009 in Child Custody Issues, Child Custody for fathers, Children's Rights,Family Courts, activism, child abuse, domestic violence | Tags: 10 year old shoots father, abused, abused children, abusers, abusive men, bad fathers, Belen, Byron Hilburn, corruption, court whores, CPS, custody, domestic abuse, domestic violence,family court, family court corruption, father rights, fathers, government corruption,Judges, maternal deprivation, misogynists, mother rights, New Mexico, protective parent,stupid men, violence against women | Leave a comment

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Posted previously by RightsForMothers.com

Another custodial father allegedly killed by child because of ongoing abuse…again.  As the rant by father’s groups and “shared parenting” groups continue, and abusive fathers get custody more and more, we will see these incidents increase.  This is, because in the eyes of some of these groups, an abusive father is better than no father at all.  I bet this little boy thought differently.

Why in the world would an abusive father have custody of children?  Because, when they try for custody, they get it 70% of the time.   Research has shown that these fathers who abused the mother will start abusing the children 40-60% of the time, if they hadn’t been already.

The Children, Youth and Families Department had SEVEN reports of abuse in the household, and did NOTHING.

And AGAIN…neighbors are quoted as saying what a nice guy this was…geezzzz.  Who could ever believe a father would abuse a child…not many men’s rights advocates I know which I won’t name.

Someone needs to take charge here and stop abusive parents from getting custody of children and to have abuse allegations taken seriously.  Child protective service’s agencies are a JOKE, and will excuse any reports of abuse if it is in the context of custody disputes.   For more on this, see:

I’m as Mad as Hell, and I’m Not Going to Take This Anymore

How many more children will be put in this position of “him or me” in determining survival?  How many children will not be able to take one more beating, or one more rape, and then break?

From the Digital Journal:

Boy, 10, could face murder charges in death of his father

Published 3 hours ago by Chris Dade

A 10-year-old boy from Belen, New Mexico is facing a possible charge of first-degree murder after his 42-year-old father died from a wound to the head, allegedly inflicted by his son.

According to ABC News, which in turn quotes a report by KOAT-TV, a boy allegedly used his own gun to shoot his father. Police were then called to the home of Byron Hilburn last Thursday evening, where they found him dead with a head wound.

Police believe the boy’s 6-year-old sister witnessed the shooting.

Hilburn was eventually pronounced dead at the University of New Mexico Hospital in Albuquerque.

The motive for the killing is apparently that the dead man, divorced and with custody of his three children, disciplined his son too harshly and too frequently, according to the boy. As the London Times reports, the man’s third child, a 9-year-old boy, was on a visit to other members of his family when the shooting occurred.

Police have reportedly not ruled out the possibility the shooting was an accident; the London Times says that the boy, who will be appointed a legal guardian prior to any police interviews, cannot be charged with murder without the approval of the New Mexico juvenile probation department.

The boy’s younger sister is now being cared for by family members, as their mother’s whereabouts and her involvement in their lives’ has not been made clear. The 10-year-old himself is in the custody of the New Mexico’s Children, Youth and Families Department (CYFD). And the CYFD has confirmed that since 2003 it has received seven anonymous calls alleging child abuse and neglect within the victim’s household. But its inquiries into the welfare of the children have not produced sufficient evidence to warrant removing the three children from the household.

Neighbors of the family reported nothing untoward in their experience of them, with descriptions such as “a good family” and “the kind of family you’d like to live next to” being used.

If the boy is eventually charged with his father’s murder, there are expected to be protests from human rights groups, among them Amnesty International. The London-based organization has been critical in the past of the record of the U.S. with regard to the human rights of children.  (YES, YES, YES)

Personally, I just signed up my child for gun safety and shooting…

WATCH OUT DADDY

I learned from the best on how to abuse and now my aim is getting better!

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WARNING THIS SHIT IS ABOUT TO GET PERSONAL By MamaLiberty

Note: Cross posted from [wp angelfury] I will not SHUT UP , GIVE UP and I WONT go away!!.

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WARNING

THIS SHIT IS ABOUT TO GET

PERSONAL

In the coming days this blog is about to get really personal. We will not only continue to report the truth about Family Court we are going to name names.

That’s right….all you criminals of the organized crime system a.k.a Family Court….shit is hitting the proverbial fan.

We have reported the blood money trail from Responsible Fatherhood Intiatives and we have followed the scum of neo-natzi skinheads that are trying to pawn themselves off as human. Now we will report for every mother and child that have been silenced by you. We will be their voice.

Oh and by the way….to the child protection worker who said that just because a child was in a car driven by their drunk father didn’t make him a “bad father he made a bad choice”….your wrong sweetie…and you’re going to be first, everything personal.

THE GRUDGE

August 31, 2009 in activism | Tags: abused, abused children, abusers, bad fathers,battered women, Carrie Silbernagel-Burke, Child Protection Worker, corruption, Court,court whores, CPS, custody, cyber stalking, domestic abuse, domestic violence, family court, family court corruption, father rights, government corruption, Judges, killer fathers,maternal deprivation, misogynists, parental alienation, pas, pedophiles, protective parent, sexual abuse, violence against women | Leave a comment

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