I received this letter last night…
I am writing to you to let you know that Santa is not ignoring your most fervent request this Christmas, nor has Santa ignored these same requests for the past years. It’s simply that Santa can not give you what you want, because Family law and the Judges who govern these courts have deemed that your daddy does have the right to abuse you. He is allowed to beat you, break your bones, torture, have sex with you, sodomize, molest or do anything else that he wants.
Please Virginia, don’t be angry or hate your mommy because she is not protecting you. For the same rules and judges that allow your father to abuse you will force your mother out of your life if she objects. So, your mommy can do nothing but hold your hand, wipe your tears and cry silently by herself while she sits helplessly by as your daddy continues to hurt you. For, if she does object the chances are good that a Family Court Judge will deem her unfit or crazy and force her into only seeing you under supervised conditions. During this time you will live with your daddy and he will have carte blanche to continue his abuse. I repeat, Virginia, it is the Family Court system and the judges who govern over them that allow these atrocities to be committed against the children.
Also, Virginia, do not feel guilty when you are forced to lie to these same judges and claim that your mommy is a bad person. Mommy and Santa understand that you have no choice. For these same judges will send you home with daddy after you testify or talk to them and mommy and Santa know what daddy will do if you were to tell the truth. Mommy and Santa understand that you are just trying to survive this horrible childhood of abuse and we still believe that you are a good girl.
Virginia, Santa is so sorry that he can not help you. Perhaps next year, you should send your letter to the leader of an influential government and ask that he, or she, take a dramatic step in making changes in the Family Court system. Ask that these same judges that are sending countless numbers of children to live with fathers who abuse, beat, rape, sodomize and even kill them to be held accountable. Ask that when a protective parent fights for their child’s safety that they not be automatically deemed an alienator. Ask that the judges be forced to recognize that when an abusive parent/father fights for sole custody that they will win in approximately 70% of the cases. Ask that when pictures and statements of abuse are provided that the family court judges be forced to acknowledge this evidence, instead of refusing to as they send the children to live in horrific circumstances. For it is clear to Santa that these judges do not care that an average of 2 children a week are being murdered while many more are being subjugated to unspeakable abuse.
So, Virginia, in closing, Santa says that he is so sorry that he can not give you the gift that you most desire. However, Santa will pray for year in this coming year. Santa will pray that you receive one less beating, that you have one less broken bone, that Daddy visits your bedroom at night at least one less time in 2011. Finally, Santa will pray that you live to see the next year, because Santa knows that many children will not live to see 2012, for their daddy’s will kill them.
I am so sorry,